I am consistently intrigued by how modern my fetish is

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I am exclusively interested in disposable diapers. 20 years ago nothing like what I'm interested in existed. It's interesting to me that such a seemingly deep-rooted passion can simultaneously host such a modern form of expression. I can't help but think this is something shared across many fetishes and it makes me curious as to how that develops. Psychology continues to progress and attempt to explain this sort of behavior. Like what kind of crazy things are some people going to fantasize about in the future? I understand it is circumstance and chance that form these attachments but it is endlessly interesting.
 
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I agree. I have been perplexed by my need to know why most of my life so i coukd understand it better. It hit me in the early 90s so i guess i attached on like a security blanket. Good thing in the long run i guess lol
 
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Minor correction, but the first disposable diaper system was created in 1946 (the paddi), while not really like the ones we have today they rapidly evolved as other companies caught on disposable diapers. Pampers was founded in 1961 and began producing diapers more like we have today.

So disposable diapers like we use today have been around for about 62 years, since cloth diapers have been around far longer and there has been evidence found of people wearing them for pleasure or non medical reasons it is not too far fetched to say this fetish even just purely for disposable diapers has been around for at least 60 years.
 
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Belarin said:
Minor correction, but the first disposable diaper system was created in 1946 (the paddi), while not really like the ones we have today they rapidly evolved as other companies caught on disposable diapers. Pampers was founded in 1961 and began producing diapers more like we have today.

So disposable diapers like we use today have been around for about 62 years, since cloth diapers have been around far longer and there has been evidence found of people wearing them for pleasure or on medical reasons it is not too far fetched to say this fetish even just purely for disposable diapers has been around for at least 60 years.
Heard. I’ll specify by saying nothing prior to 20ish years ago interests me. I’m still learning from you though so I won’t pretend I knew it all. 60 years is a lot longer than I would have guessed
 
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i still say that diapers are one of the safest, cheapest, most accessible, and most discreet fetishes. and since i like wet medical diapers the most, it's even the most publically acceptable - nobody has ever noticed, and if they did, no one would guess it's just for fun!
 
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Diaper fetish or AB kink aren't anything new and really not modern. Is just only more visible - because internet. But syill has the same bad fame between vainillas.
 
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PluggedandPadded said:
Heard. I’ll specify by saying nothing prior to 20ish years ago interests me. I’m still learning from you though so I won’t pretend I knew it all. 60 years is a lot longer than I would have guessed
Back home now so can fit a longer reply.

Yeah they actually have been around longer than I thought when I first looked into it, I knew they were around in the 80's but right back to the 60's was news to me at first.

Small history lesson for those interested.

Marion Donovan, is credited with creating the first (non rubber pant) reusable diaper cover in 1946, known as the "Boater" made from an old shower curtain cut and sewn with a place for an insert to create a semi adjustable 2 part diaper system. Until then Diapers were basically all made from cloth sheets folded and pinned onto the baby with either rubber pull up pants or pure lanolised wool "soaker" pants to help prevent the diaper wicking onto clothing/furniture.

This new system allowed parents to use a simple pad (or fold a square of diaper material into a pad) to place inside and then tie onto the baby. She did also invent a disposable paper diaper but was unable to market it so it flopped and came to nothing. Later versions of this after the idea took off used parachute material, this was much more comfortable than rubber and less prone to irritation and diaper rash while remaining waterproof.

About a year later a Scottish woman named Valerie Hunter Gordon began developing "Paddi" which was a 2 part diaper system similar to Donovan's and using the same parachute material except the outer wrap was fully adjustable and used press studs/snaps to hold it together. The other big difference was that rather than using a cloth pad inside, the Paddi used a disposable pad made from cellulose wadding covered in cotton wool.

She had some trouble at first getting it sold but once they found a production company and made a deal with Boots in the UK (UK's biggest chemist/drug store chain) it became very successful up until the late 50's where the first all in one disposable systems came to market.

J&J had the first commercially available AIO disposable in about 1948 but it's design was not quite right and didn't take off as well as hoped, in 1956 P&G began researching disposable diaper ideas and in 1961 released the first ever design for Pampers to the public. This design took off immediately and became very popular.

Over the next few decades a very heated fight between Proctor and Gamble's Pampers and Kimberly Clark's Huggies led to drastic redesigns and the rapid evolution of the disposable diaper into the forms that we know and love today, changes such as adding double gussets, refastenable tapes, hourglass/contour shapes, ADL layers, odour control, elasticated waist and wings, one way "stay dry" lining, better core materials etc.

And most notably sometime between 1981 and 1984 the introduction and first use of sodium polyacrylate (super absorbent polymers or SAP) in a diaper, this stuff has been around since 1966 but took nearly 20 years to be used in a diaper. They have continued to evolve and new features added over the years since but this has been the last change that made a really big impact on how well the diapers worked.
 
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PluggedandPadded said:
Heard. I’ll specify by saying nothing prior to 20ish years ago interests me. I’m still learning from you though so I won’t pretend I knew it all. 60 years is a lot longer than I would have guessed
What changed around the turn of the century? My own interest started around then but I can't recall any significant changes coming into play or being discussed. Cloth backing maybe?
 
What we would recognize as modern disposables have been around since at least the 70s. Most of us are drawn to the type of diapers we grew up with or had a core experience with. Whether those are plastic backed, cloth backed, with or without waist bands, I don't think really matters except to each person individually.
 
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I suspect this kink has been around in some form as long has modern human beings evolved around 300k years ago.
 
PluggedandPadded said:
I am exclusively interested in disposable diapers. 20 years ago nothing like what I'm interested in existed. It's interesting to me that such a seemingly deep-rooted passion can simultaneously host such a modern form of expression. I can't help but think this is something shared across many fetishes and it makes me curious as to how that develops. Psychology continues to progress and attempt to explain this sort of behavior. Like what kind of crazy things are some people going to fantasize about in the future? I understand it is circumstance and chance that form these attachments but it is endlessly interesting.
Think about what the disposable symbolizes to you rather than what it is and you may be closer to your answer.
 
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CrazySmoker said:
Diaper fetish or AB kink aren't anything new and really not modern. Is just only more visible - because internet. But syill has the same bad fame between vainillas.

'Because Internet' - Totally agree. Things like wanting to wear diapers for fun was not something people would discuss in person with their friends or family. It was often just a strange intrusive thought that people would ignore and it would be gone.

Honestly, who hasn't thought of of peeing their pants at least one in their life; but they keep it to themselves... especially conservative people.

But the internet allows us to anonymously share our deepest thoughts and desires, suddenly peeing your pants just for the exhilarating experience isn't so strange and uncommon now is it.

Today I am DL only because the internet made me aware of ABDL diapers and this community.
 
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There was a photo and story once of a rich family having a baby party where they drank out of baby bottles early 1900s every one was dressed as baby's they were adults
I saw it year's ago.
 
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I am so intrigued as to the reason why I am so drawn to wearing and using diapers! 5 years ago I would have only thought adult diapers were what you bought at the store. Now with all the modern divers that I have in my collection and the fact that I am so drawn to wearing them and enjoying them and using them is so perplexing. My wife just doesn't get it. But I just can't explain it.
 
What would my situation be if I were living in a soddie on the Kansas prairie in the 1860s, without indoor plumbing, modern detergents, just one or two sets of clothes, and no privacy, but with my “unusual” desires — needs! — to wet and poop in my pants and make really wet, stinky messes of my clothes and myself? Maybe, under those conditions, my fetishes never would have been expressed. Certainly some of the abusive incidents that seem to have been critical in the development of my fetishes never would have happened. I certainly wouldn’t have had any porn to whet my appetites, although there might have been a Montgomery Ward catalogue with really sexy pictures of feminine underthings.
 
PeterPPeevy said:
What would my situation be if I were living in a soddie on the Kansas prairie in the 1860s, without indoor plumbing, modern detergents, just one or two sets of clothes, and no privacy, but with my “unusual” desires — needs! — to wet and poop in my pants and make really wet, stinky messes of my clothes and myself? Maybe, under those conditions, my fetishes never would have been expressed. Certainly some of the abusive incidents that seem to have been critical in the development of my fetishes never would have happened. I certainly wouldn’t have had any porn to whet my appetites, although there might have been a Montgomery Ward catalogue with really sexy pictures of feminine underthings.
A well stated, thought-provoking historical perspective. Thank you PP.
 
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