I have a concern that's popped up in the last few days, I'm worried/anxious that other users on this forum think that my boyfriend and I shouldn't be together because i get so anxious about his abdl side. Is this a deal breaker for some? It could just be my anxiety talking (i have sought out professional help for this and other non related personal issues). As I've stated in my previous posts, I love and adore this man and I want to spend the rest of my life with him and I'm willing to do whatever it takes for me to be able to not have this sort of reaction to it. Although it has been getting better in the last few months. I'm hoping that he will continue to allow me to take things slow and ease myself into it but I also know that he gets excited and tends to "push" me past my boundaries before I'm ready to move past them.This scares me into thinking that he'll leave me if i'm not immediately on board with abdl, as he wants me to be heavily involved in all of the aspects that he enjoys and that it is a sexual turn on for him.