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  1. EclipseWolf

    When to come out as ABDL to a (potential) boyfriend?

    I’m going on a date with a guy from work and I know that if we pursue a relationship, I will eventually have to tell him about my little side. How far into the relationship should I do that? Should I tell him at the same time that I tell him I’m asexual? Should I wait until we start thinking...
  2. R

    New mommy looking to learn

    My boyfriend of 5 years very recently confessed his ABDL tendencies to me. I was really confused and slightly weirded out at first. I think he saw that, and told me he didn’t expect me to accept or even tolerate this part of him. He said he’d been terrified to say anything and hadn’t meant to...
  3. Elad92

    How to be more little?

    Hey. I am hoping to get some advice on how I can explore my little side more and do more little things. Currently I wear nappies, a onesie, have a dummy, get bathed, get fed a bottle and suckle my girlfriends/mummy's boobies. What else can I do to feel more little? I guess I feel around the...
  4. Incontinence2017

    Incontinence Advice

    This thread is for anyone who may need advice dealing with there incontinence. Hi, my name is James, I have been dealing with incontinence for about 3 years and have faced many obstacles along the way, I mostly spend my time alone (out side of work) and have decided to join this site in hopes...
  5. A

    Seeking advice and answers

    I have a concern that's popped up in the last few days, I'm worried/anxious that other users on this forum think that my boyfriend and I shouldn't be together because i get so anxious about his abdl side. Is this a deal breaker for some? It could just be my anxiety talking (i have sought out...
  6. R

    Hi, new and nervous

    Hi guys, I'm new to all this and quite nervous. Could some of you give me some advice on getting started? I really want to be in diapers all the time but I have some worries: Im really worried about my diaper being obvious under my clothes, how can i avoid that? Im worried about my diaper...
  7. M

    Hello

    Hey there, I'm technically new to adisc but my husband has been on and sharing posts with me for a long time to help me understand. My husband is an AB/DL and shared this piece of his life with me about two years ago. It's been a long road, but recently I've found myself more willing and...
  8. L

    Diaper help/troubleshooting

    Today was my first time trying diapers, I got a Rearz sample pack from Amazon as a tester. I have some questions. Any help or input would be appreciated, I really am at a loss here. My Daddy and I are LDR right now (for school) as well, so he cannot help me much, plus he isn't the most...
  9. A

    Any Advice?

    My boyfriend is into abdl and while I support him wholeheartedly and love him just the same. He wants me to be a part of it too. Only problem is, is that I get what I'm calling these "anxiety attacks" whenever we start talking about me participating. I have put one on before but only for a few...
  10. BurgundyRose

    Travel Advice?

    I'll be going on a weekend vacation very soon and I need some advice. I'll be out the vast majority of the day and staying in a hotel with a few other people at night. I won't be the only person in my hotel room. I'm concerned about needing diapers for the trip. I have occasional incontinence...
  11. F

    What to expect before surgery

    To begin, I want to apologize if this question has already been asked. If it has, a link to that post would be helpful, and I can remove this one. I don't want a duplicate post here. Next week I will be getting surgery for a work-related injury, very minor, not very invasive. Now, I have light...
  12. H

    New Diaper Lover On the Block!

    Hi! I’m new to this community and very happy to have joined! So I’ve been a diaper love for about four years or so and I’ve just gotten a hold of diapers themself a couple months ago, and let me tell you, it was good. That’s it. It sucks, because all these years I’ve been longing to try on a...
  13. Z

    Resource list

    ABDL Community Directory Table of Contents Educational Resources Media Spokespersons Events Forums Vloggers First Person Perspective Friends & Partners Foreign Language Podcasters Authors . Educational resources Understanding Infantilism ADISC Infantilism Commentary on the AB/DL Gender...
  14. C

    How to get somebody's opinion

    How would I discreetly get somebody's opinion about the whole abdl thing before telling them, this is online btw so I can't talk to them in person and we can't meet up.
  15. Cthulhu

    My diapered week in london

    Remember that trip to London i posted about (With the other account i made called ''Luxuria''. Ceating that account was a mistake, i won't use it again and didn't mean to use more than one account) ? Well, i made it. I made it to the hotel in London (from Sweden) with a weeks supply of diapers...
  16. L

    I Want To Have A Diaper Fetish!

    I am feeling desperate!! I've been searching online and haven't found much concerning the questions I have, so I decided to make an account on here and ask myself. My sweet husband is into diapers and peeing stuff. He's not into wearing them himself, he's more into having me wear them. I...
  17. Neet

    Anxiety (OCD), Diapers, and my relationship.

    For the past two months I've been diaper free. I've been pushing my ab/dl side of my life away, trying to deny its existence. Naturally, it hasn't been going so well. For the past 4 years of my life (5 this September <3 ) I've been with my girlfriend who I can't see myself happily living...
  18. BabyKai

    Cloth diapers or disposable diapers?

    I've been considering using cloth diapers but I need some help. I'm still waiting for my doctor to assess my incontincence so I don't get any "free" diapers on prescription so my mum buys them and it's costing over £40 a month. Because of this, I'm really thinking about using cloth diapers to...
  19. I

    How do you wear diapers if you live with parents!?

    So I've been into diapers for a while now and whenever I do get the chance to wear (very VERY rarely) it just takes a huge amount of stress off and I enjoy every second of it! I'm currently 18 and just about to move to university soon where I'm going to be living with roommates for a year (don't...
  20. BabyKai

    I need feedback on this story I'm going to do.

    Hi, I'm really into writing stories but this is my first ABDL story. I've written quite a bit so far and would love feedback, negative or positive. As long as you aren't rude about it (although I doubt anyone will be since it seems this website is just full of very lovely, caring, friendly...
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