KimbaWolfNagihiko said:
I suppose I'm lucky that I can get away with so much with my parents. My dad is in the dark about most of it (and I'm keeping it that way), but stuff like footie pajamas is alright, and he does know I use pacifiers and suck my thumb. I opened up to my mom about the diapers almost four months ago now, and... the pack of Palace Pets Pull-Ups in the shopping cart at Walmart today shows she doesn't mind.
Don't get me wrong, I've never had any problem with her being able to wear around her parents or even act little around them, it's just the way she went about it that bothered me. Or more than that, what bothered me was it was her
default way of getting what she wanted, and that she seemed blind to the consequences of her actions. If she was able to get to the same point of acceptance without all the manipulation, or even if her manipulation was just confined to faking the odd wet night so her parents would let her wear, I'd have been a lot more okay with it.
Like as an example, both you and her seem to be in roughly similar situations regarding what kind of AB stuff you can get away with around your parents (Pacifier notwithstanding), but your ability to wear diapers and footies around them (or at least your Mom) is not the result of a multi-year deception campaign. You opened up to your Mom about it, which is brave as hell and something I respect immensely. My ex went about it a different way. In fact, I remember her fuming at a doctor for implying her wetting maybe wasn't entirely unintentional after all her tests were negative.
Here's what I mean: a while after we started dating her parents thought she was wearing too much during the day, (remember, they thought it was a medical problem) so they told her that they'd prefer if she didn't put on her diapers before a certain time... like 8 or 9 iirc. Her bedtime was 11:30 so it was pretty reasonable IMO. Her response was to "fall asleep" on a couch or a chair and terrorize the furniture until they relented. When they did, she bragged to me that she had got her parents to take back their rule and she could wear whenever she wanted again, expecting me to tell her good job, meanwhile her parents scheduled another round of urologist's appointments because they thought her "incontinence" was creeping into the daytime.
She'd always complain about how awful her parents were to her, but the truth is they were great and cared a lot about her. I've seen plenty of awful parents and that they were not. I'm almost 100% sure if she had had an honest conversation with them about how much diapers meant to her they would have let her wear, though I very much doubt they would have paid for her habit like they did.
It's not that her parents couldn't afford the doctor's appointments, she was pretty wealthy-- grew up with a nanny, maid, olympic-sized in-ground pool and everything, but the fact that she would put her parents through all that just so she could engage her AB side more often was pretty shitty of her. And then as the relationship progressed she started pulling the same kinda shit with me. I put up with it for longer than I should too, but she was first girlfriend and all the AB stuff was too tempting. I was sure I'd never find another girl who was even willing do try ABDL stuff, let alone one who liked it as much as she did.
Starfox said:
Sounds like she was the only child and was spoiled rotten. If she had siblings they'd have ratted her out, and doubt the parents would go to the length they did for her.
--sf
Called it.