dazednconfused
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Fordazednconfused said:I don’t understand how an object can actually make you feel more love and pleasure than a human connection. And if it’s as simple as you said, so much bliss from a simple garment, then why even be ina relationship with a woman if your not attracted to women unless there is a diaper on their body?
as for comparing it to a man crawling into bed with me, there are certainly things that make me feel far more loved and secure and fulfilled than that..? But even that seems so strange…. How can an object hold equal significance to a person? As for the whole “men never get to feel secure” thing, lol who DOES? As a woman I would bet I have a lot more legitimate thrreats to my security day to day than the average man. I don’t expect to feel secure like a baby, why would I, what does that even mean? As for your comment that men need to learn that diapers don’t replace a human woman, it’s genuinely hard for me to even read that sentence without being frustrated and bewildered. Not only can a diaper not replace a person, but how can you even compare the two as being in the same category? Is it that without a diaper you don’t find women sexually appealing ? I truly can’t wrap my mind around the idea of thinking so little of your spouse to compare them to a diaper in terms of importance, and still want to have the perks of a relationship while treating them like they’re less than an object,., very hurtful and sad and shocking for me to even think about
Forgot to say that security and maternal love are totally NOT the feelings I am seeking to experience with a romantic/sexual partner. I don’t get where feeling secure crosses into feeling horny.. it would feel traumatizing for me to treat a grown man like a baby while in a se y’all context, I’m very nurturing and very sexual but they are totally separatedazednconfused said:I don’t understand how an object can actually make you feel more love and pleasure than a human connection. And if it’s as simple as you said, so much bliss from a simple garment, then why even be ina relationship with a woman if your not attracted to women unless there is a diaper on their body?
as for comparing it to a man crawling into bed with me, there are certainly things that make me feel far more loved and secure and fulfilled than that..? But even that seems so strange…. How can an object hold equal significance to a person? As for the whole “men never get to feel secure” thing, lol who DOES? As a woman I would bet I have a lot more legitimate thrreats to my security day to day than the average man. I don’t expect to feel secure like a baby, why would I, what does that even mean? As for your comment that men need to learn that diapers don’t replace a human woman, it’s genuinely hard for me to even read that sentence without being frustrated and bewildered. Not only can a diaper not replace a person, but how can you even compare the two as being in the same category? Is it that without a diaper you don’t find women sexually appealing ? I truly can’t wrap my mind around the idea of thinking so little of your spouse to compare them to a diaper in terms of importance, and still want to have the perks of a relationship while treating them like they’re less than an object,., very hurtful and sad and shocking for me to even think about