Well i think about it like this, for me anyways, as it is an individual choice, basically to wear a diaper or to not, battled with it to long, now i just enjoy as much as i can.
With the choice of diapers evolving with medical, abdl, plastic backed, non plastic, and capacity increasing, like man i don't think i would drink 5 and1/2 2L bottles of coke with out exploding.
It's all for me anyways, about creating a head space, and like i don't wear the same shirt everyday, variety is good, as long as its plastic backed, cannot get into head space with cloth backed.
Has to be put on perfectly, has to be comfy, not many medicals do it, not all abdl diapers do either. Its all about living learning and enjoying!