Incon97
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Hi! Just thought I’d break the silence as I’m new here and really does make me feel at home more seeing/speaking with other people who suffer from the same issues so thanks to anyone who as been brave enough to post
. In a weird way it’s nice to relate to people & not feel so alone from issues on the worse days,so recently joined this page for that reason.
I’m 26, male form the UK. Suffered from OAB for many years now but do believe I suffer and overreactive bladder/ all the types (urge/stress) incontinence. Was a late bedwetter as a child and never really grew out of that. For me it all never stopped first with bedwetting & as time went on soon got daytime issues to follow.After being told you’d grow out of it for years by many doctors though childhood, but soon realising it wasn’t going away. After many many more doctor’s appointments and tests nothing was majorly wrong, no one could find what the problem was other then being told it’s urge/stress incontinence.I see this is the case with a lot of people that go to the doctors also?
Have worn taped nappies (tena active fit) to help this and by far they do make life easier as embarrassing as they may feel. I really am trying to accept them more and more but with my job being mostly outside active work find this very hard, especially when in public it’s so stressful and something that has always worried me like what if someone knows/ sees and still does to this day but i do know this is common thing to think and it’s all just a mentally in your head thing but just need to break that thought somehow & hopefully will one day. I do go from one extreme to the other some weeks sometimes even months but then others times frequently leaking & no control at all on the daily or very little signal of needing to go to ect and will stay that way for a while and the same with bedwetting. But recently just decided to go 24/7 and embrace it!
Hope it’s okay to post this. Just wanted to share my story a little. Thanks
. In a weird way it’s nice to relate to people & not feel so alone from issues on the worse days,so recently joined this page for that reason. I’m 26, male form the UK. Suffered from OAB for many years now but do believe I suffer and overreactive bladder/ all the types (urge/stress) incontinence. Was a late bedwetter as a child and never really grew out of that. For me it all never stopped first with bedwetting & as time went on soon got daytime issues to follow.After being told you’d grow out of it for years by many doctors though childhood, but soon realising it wasn’t going away. After many many more doctor’s appointments and tests nothing was majorly wrong, no one could find what the problem was other then being told it’s urge/stress incontinence.I see this is the case with a lot of people that go to the doctors also?
Have worn taped nappies (tena active fit) to help this and by far they do make life easier as embarrassing as they may feel. I really am trying to accept them more and more but with my job being mostly outside active work find this very hard, especially when in public it’s so stressful and something that has always worried me like what if someone knows/ sees and still does to this day but i do know this is common thing to think and it’s all just a mentally in your head thing but just need to break that thought somehow & hopefully will one day. I do go from one extreme to the other some weeks sometimes even months but then others times frequently leaking & no control at all on the daily or very little signal of needing to go to ect and will stay that way for a while and the same with bedwetting. But recently just decided to go 24/7 and embrace it!
Hope it’s okay to post this. Just wanted to share my story a little. Thanks
