Hello,
We all make silly purchases at times.
My partner knows I like to dress up at times so sheās not surprised when I have some parcels arrive.
She doesnāt know about my little girl side and when I have a binge of little girl stuff, my biggest worry is all the parcels arriving. Best laid plans and timing, they donāt arrive to plan. The number of times Iāve nearly been caught out with littleforbig nappies, frilly or printed plastic panties, pacifiers, baby girl clothes and dresses I canāt count.
I have the regret from the moment I press the button to buy. Once or twice Iāve cancelled the order via Amazon but others I couldnāt.
I start to think of excuses and alike but I just know Iāll get caught out one day, maybe subconsciously thatās what I want. In the mean time the fear and panic is almost paralysing.
Recently Iāve become much more selective and careful about how and when I buy and also try to be content with being a big girl. Luckily that involves dressing as a schoolgirl or little girl maybe 6 or 7 but no nappies or baby pants with my partner.
I do dream that one day she might suggest some training panties or precautions for her little girl. I think the chances are Bob Hope and no hope but we can dream.
Just be careful and recognise the cost of binge when you are struggling to hide stuff is purging and thatās when you get depressed about all of the lovely things you let go and you have further regret.
I guess itās about being conservative and breaking the cycle.
Touch wood I seem to have done that and all but my little stuff is open in my wardrobe which she has open access to.
That came with a price of coming out to her which could of been disastrous but actually, sheās been great I just regret not having done it sooner.
I hope some of that helps.
Jenny x