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It's a beautiful fall day. The leaves are mostly turned and many are falling to the ground. The trail through the woods I normally run is carpeted and the leaves crunch underfoot. The weather is sunny and the temperature in the 50s. I am out for a lunchtime run and really enjoying the day. Until... At about 3 miles, the pains in my gut come on incredibly strong and fast. I reflect that I've always been so careful to manage my bowels. I followed my routine flawlessly today... Though I recall that yesterday, I ate white pasta... I knew this was a bad idea when I did it, but I love pasta. Now I am aware that I'm going to pay in a way that many of you understand all too well.
I've been urine incontinent for decades. I've had a few fecal episodes over time because of the muscular and nerve damage but I am so fortunate that they are vanishingly rare. All of this runs through my mind as I realize I'm a mile and a half from any toilet and I notice that there are just enough people around and the undergrowth is gone such that I can't just squat in the woods. I continue to run... I've got nothing to lose but my inner peace and tranquility are gone. About a quarter mile later, it happens. I'm shamed, I'm uncomfortable, miserable. I don't like this feeling. Between the wetness and now the messiness, my skin almost immediately starts to itch, chafe and burn. After walking for a bit doesn't make it any better, I decide to run for a while and then walk again because I'm too miserable.
While walking in shame and misery about a half mile from my house, my mind shifts again. I think of all of you on this board that deal with this frequently. I think about how you keep going and you manage it. I wanted you all to know that I admire you and I honor your struggles. I think of how lucky I am that I don't deal with this every day, how lucky I am to "only" be urinary incontinent. Finally, I'm thankful that yesterday I ran out of the pads I often run with and that I happened to run today in a diaper with leak guards. Nothing finds its way to my shorts.
Thanks to all on this board who support each other.
I've been urine incontinent for decades. I've had a few fecal episodes over time because of the muscular and nerve damage but I am so fortunate that they are vanishingly rare. All of this runs through my mind as I realize I'm a mile and a half from any toilet and I notice that there are just enough people around and the undergrowth is gone such that I can't just squat in the woods. I continue to run... I've got nothing to lose but my inner peace and tranquility are gone. About a quarter mile later, it happens. I'm shamed, I'm uncomfortable, miserable. I don't like this feeling. Between the wetness and now the messiness, my skin almost immediately starts to itch, chafe and burn. After walking for a bit doesn't make it any better, I decide to run for a while and then walk again because I'm too miserable.
While walking in shame and misery about a half mile from my house, my mind shifts again. I think of all of you on this board that deal with this frequently. I think about how you keep going and you manage it. I wanted you all to know that I admire you and I honor your struggles. I think of how lucky I am that I don't deal with this every day, how lucky I am to "only" be urinary incontinent. Finally, I'm thankful that yesterday I ran out of the pads I often run with and that I happened to run today in a diaper with leak guards. Nothing finds its way to my shorts.
Thanks to all on this board who support each other.