The wife is not crazy about wearing, but will, on certain occasions, for convenience sake. I don't think it's easy to turn a vanilla into a full-blown ABDL, but, it MAY BE POSSIBLE. Maybe it's all the fem issues that require absorbers that cause them to veer away, or maybe it's different smells due to a cavity being contained in a diaper, as opposed to a hose?? Don't know...
But, as some have shown here, they do wear, and apparently overcome the fem issues, and live it every bit as much as men, though they're far less vocal and involved in the community aspect, EXCEPT the courageous ones!
Diapers on, girls!!!