Aha, now this is a thread to which I can contribute. Recently I have been using baby changing rooms but only certain ones. I live in the UK and I'm guessing most nappy-changing toilets still have those fold-out-the-wall tables - I haven't really checked - but UK Sainsburys stores have fantastic baby-nappy-changing facilities. They don't have fold-out-the-wall tables coz they have something better, they have big reinforced box-tables (like chests-of-drawers with no drawers) (this means they are supported from the ground up) and they are just brilliant. Okay I'm quite wirey so in regards to them I don't have to worry about weight (Of course even I couldn't do one of those fold-out-the-wall tables, I'm 22 for crying out loud, just over six foot and not anorexic!) but I'm confident they could handle someone in their thirties...well someone in their thirties who's of the standard weight for that age group...finally you do have to put your feet in the sink.
Soiling while lying down is a very important thing for me, I'm very much DL but soiling while horizontal is of course very babyish and also something I like doing...I think at the end of the day the only babyish experiences I like to recreate as an adult are authentic nappy usage and other-person changing. Now back to these Sainsbury's toilets...I've found a toilet like this in two of my local stores so I think they might be in all of them (time will tell hey!), usually the entrance door is actually out of the line-of-sight of any one of the people on the tills (well you wouldn't want to get caught...espescially if you're currently the owner of quite a beard and currently look exactly like many a pedofile), I must mention in terms of emergency excuses (not that I've had to use one yet!) at one of the stores the disabeled toilet was closed for repair...I think one could absolutely justify using it if that was the case. I fully ignolege I may get caught - at one of these sainburys I've now done this 4 times in the last 3 months (!!) (and only once at the other one) - yes they may be checking the bin contents at the end of the day and they may be putting two and two together as we speak...all im going to say is until I get blacklistd I'm going to enjoy it while it lasts! bringmesunshine p.s word of warning, these sainsburys nappy-rooms don't contain a toilet...now our 'deposits' are much bigger than those of infants and trust me bagging up and going over to the gents for disposal can feel like you're walking naked through dry twigs behind an audience of 1,000...just grit your teeth and be quick, if you make a big thing of it the universe will probably make sure you run into someone or you'll look ridiculously suspicious. I really recomend you give these toilets a try, if I'm wrong about it being all of them i apolergise, good luck from me...happy nappy-changing-room experiences!