Recent content by paddeddownthere

Nobody needs to know that doesn’t need to know. If you tell someone, just make sure you’re highly confident they’re trustworthy and capable of reviewing the information.

I decided to share some brief personal thoughts on why we identify as ABDL and where it came from. I decided to write this because there are so many posts debating, is it from trauma? Is it a kink? Should I come out to friends or family? Where did this come from? These are highly debated topics...

When you type in ABDL in Amazon, you will often get sponsored results from mainstream adult diaper companies. Today I got Prevail, a company called “Newclears” and Wings as sponsored ads. Do you think they are deliberately promoting? Or are Amazon algorithms picking up on ABDL diapers via search...

This is always a tough one. But I’m of the tribe that more positive public awareness is good. Here’s why. I think some people are hesitant because they view this strictly as a kink. To them a kink is something that should be kept behind closed doors. But I think (at least for me and some others...

Hi everyone, I’m curious to hear thoughts. I wear size medium diapers and I’m right in the middle of the medium size range on most diapers, and lower/middle range on some. My waist is 31 inches. In my not so humble opinion - diaper crotches are way too wide. People’s legs just are not spread...

If you read my previous post in this thread I clearly spelled out that I’m not comparing it on struggles etc.. but what I am comparing it to is personal, because I am LGBT. And for me it’s similar in that I was born this way or developed it as a baby in diapers bc I vividly remember wanting...

Well as I stated, I have no desire nor do I think it’s appropriate to be out in full baby gear or a diaper in public. All that will do is make it awkward for one or both parties and invite a negative response from the public. But I simply stated that if I bend over and my diaper accidentally...

That’s my point exactly. It’s not the same as LGBT in terms of origins and struggles, but I’m simply trying to state that several of us have memories of wanting to wear diapers and even stealing them family or babysitters at an alarmingly young age. This is hardly a sexual thing at that age. For...

I’m one of those that is upset by the fact that ABDL is always classified as a kink or fetish when for me it’s usually not sexual. I simply never really grew out of diapers even though I’m not incontinent. For me it’s more closely aligned with being LGBT (something I was born with or developed...

Hi there, I am sure this topic has been discussed in bits and pieces before. I am in a situation where I told my partner about a year into our relationship just prior to him moving in. At first he reacted negatively, but very quickly apologized and said he’s ok with it after researching more on...

I am in a very similar situation. I told mine a year into dating. He reacted negatively at first, for a few hours really. Then came around and said he fully accepts it and isn’t going to make a huge deal of it. He even tried wearing once even though he made it clear that just because he’s...

Personally the sexual fetish side doesn’t apply to me and I think that because it is almost always classified as a sexual fetish or kink that it is actually a setback for many of us. Granted, I understand that it is sexual for some. For me I was either born this way, or more likely, I developed...

I too wish for at least the ABDL diapers to be scented with that exact scent, or at least replicas like SDK. Makes sense considering your smell nerves connect to your brain exactly where your long term memory is. This is why certain scents bring us back to a place in time. Or a smell can bring...

Perhaps they are trying to keep control of their margin. Eventually a competing company will form that will do it cheaper with as good or even better quality and they will offer amazon prime shipping. That would be great! I want my diapers same day! 😬

I wouldn't say it's pure greed. It's economics. It has to do with supply and demand. It has to do with competition. Newer abdl companies are already cheaper than old abdl companies. They can make their product cheaper and keep their healthy margins. Companies like pampers are run by massive CPG...