I love Victorian-style clothing as well. Some time ago I bought this blouse, and I love everything about it - except for how loose it is around the collar. So I've ripped open the stitches and removed the collar, and now it's just waiting for me to have enough time to get out the sewing machine and add a collar that is higher and tighter.
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Everything about it screams 'sissy', even the cuffs as you can see in this photo:
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