Undertale

[Khaymen]

I need some help from the forum. My stepdaughter has become obsessed with Undertale and its forums. Evidently the forums have strong BDSM elements and I was ready to kill someone when I found out that some guy was trying to get my 15 year old daughter to send him a nude photo.

I've since forbade her to use any chat besides a moderated one and am trying my best to talk to her about it. I am open about my kinks in general, however neither of my children are comfortable talking with me about their sexuality. I have no problem with her being curious, but I want to keep her safe as long as it is within my power.

Does anyone know about this games following and forums? What should I watch out for and where are safe zones I could steer her toward?

 

[rennecfox]

what forums are you referring to (didn't know about a specific community)? the game itself is about dealing with loss and learning to move on

It's basically a hybrid rpg/bullet hell game, its very popular among babyfurs because of Asrieal who is a goat demon (he's catching up to tails in terms of diapered fan art)

 

[BabyJacob98]

Hello Khaymen,
I don't know what Undertale exatly means but I don't really want to know.. When I was her age I was uncomfortable talking to my parents about my sexuality. I think we all were still not sure who we were at that age. So I think she is just curious-she is experimenting-as we all.
-Jacob

 

[rennecfox]

Hello Khaymen,
I don't know what Undertale exatly means
-Jacob

Undertale, it's a popular video game on steam

 

[BabyJacob98]

Oh, so no worrying at all. I thought it was something about BDSM related...

 

[foxkits]

I guess you should show her the photos at walmart of missing children.
Explain that your keeping her safe then Google arrested for child molstion.
There are a lot of bad person's out there that play on line pretended to be kids.
Im sorry you may hava to scare her a little.
But tell her you were young once too. You understand.
I was abused in my teens not a good age at all.

 

[soupy]

I've played that game and I found the whole thing to be pretty short sweet and wholesome, granted I only did one play through. I also was a bit spoiled as I knew going in there was incentive to not kill anyone. So given the over all tone I find a BDSM connection a bit surprising. It's probably more an issue with that particular forum. I'm sorry I can't direct you to the ADISC of undertale forums, but the game does have some fans around here so maybe some one can.

Though if your daughter has made friends on the site it might not be easy for you to get her to pack up her things and move to less perverse pastures. the measures you took seem reasonable (to me at least) and I'm sure if your daughter is aware that; what you put on the internet is functionally out there in public forever no takesies backsies, she won't do anything too rash.

As a bit of an aside, the game is pretty short simple and cheap. Have you considered playing it and sharing your experience with your daughter. Who knows your enjoyment of it could make the whole business terribly uncool,or worse case scenario you wind up with something to talk about just between the two of you.

 

[Khaymen]

As a bit of an aside, the game is pretty short simple and cheap. Have you considered playing it and sharing your experience with your daughter. Who knows your enjoyment of it could make the whole business terribly uncool,or worse case scenario you wind up with something to talk about just between the two of you.

Please don't misunderstand, it isn't the game I have a problem with. The community surrounding it is my concern. Both her friends from school and the former chat room she visited incorporated BDSM elements into their role play and I just want to guide her through any misinformation she may encounter from kids who have little more exposure to that world than fifty shades of dumb as well as potential predictors.

 

[KittyninjaW]

Please don't misunderstand, it isn't the game I have a problem with. The community surrounding it is my concern. Both her friends from school and the former chat room she visited incorporated BDSM elements into their role play and I just want to guide her through any misinformation she may encounter from kids who have little more exposure to that world than fifty shades of dumb as well as potential predictors.

Internet Rule #34: If it exists there is porn of it, sadly. It's not really your fault, Sadly there is a dark side to the internet, and I feel you have a right to guide her through that and inform her about that stuff. Also On another note I would encourage anyone who hasn't played the game to do so, It is really good.

 

[soupy]

Please don't misunderstand, it isn't the game I have a problem with. The community surrounding it is my concern. Both her friends from school and the former chat room she visited incorporated BDSM elements into their role play and I just want to guide her through any misinformation she may encounter from kids who have little more exposure to that world than fifty shades of dumb as well as potential predictors.

Oh no I didn't see you as blaming the game. What I meant to do in what you quoted was just to point out the opportunity for a shared interest in the game.

And if I could throw in one more food for thought type comment. Sometimes we can entertain things as a fantasy that we wouldn't pursue in reality. To put that in an ABDL context messing could in your mind push all the right buttons for helplessness and embarrassment but when the reality of discomfort smell and cleanup hit it could lose it's luster real fast.

 

[rennecfox]

Please don't misunderstand, it isn't the game I have a problem with. The community surrounding it is my concern. Both her friends from school and the former chat room she visited incorporated BDSM elements into their role play and I just want to guide her through any misinformation she may encounter from kids who have little more exposure to that world than fifty shades of dumb as well as potential predictors.

Again I ask, what forum are you talking about? Is it explicitly advertised as an undertale board/chat room? This certainly is not the norm for the undertale fanbase. Yeah there is some are that is in these categories, almost all games have someone making porn for them >>; As for keeping your daughter out of trouble, all you can do is put firewalls on her computer and monitor her activities regularly, even that isn't a guarantee.

 

[Argent]

Sorry that sounds terrible and creepy.

The game looks terrible btw

 

[rennecfox]

Sorry that sounds terrible and creepy.

The game looks terrible btw

It's actually a really fun game with elements of rpg and bullet hell.

 

[Khaymen]

Again I ask, what forum are you talking about? Is it explicitly advertised as an undertale board/chat room?

Sorry for the delay, the app is animo and it is an undertale chat that she is moderated so she got into private offshoot chats.

 

[Sapphyre]

I need some help from the forum. My stepdaughter has become obsessed with Undertale and its forums. Evidently the forums have strong BDSM elements and I was ready to kill someone when I found out that some guy was trying to get my 15 year old daughter to send him a nude photo.

I've since forbade her to use any chat besides a moderated one and am trying my best to talk to her about it. I am open about my kinks in general, however neither of my children are comfortable talking with me about their sexuality. I have no problem with her being curious, but I want to keep her safe as long as it is within my power.

Does anyone know about this games following and forums? What should I watch out for and where are safe zones I could steer her toward?

The guy in question sounds like a creep. However, when it comes to forbidding your daughter from using chat or forums... be careful ... you'll entice her to go behind your back. To ensure her safety, you may want to try a softer approach than that.

I'm not a parent myself, so this is mainly coming from my experiences growing up. I didn't fit in with my peers, at school for example; I got along better with people much older than myself. So, as a teen, I had a fair number of adult friends online and we even exchanged phone numbers. For me it was a vital social connection. I also explored BDSM interests through role-play. No harm ever came of it, but that's not due to avoidance but rather because I'm very steadfast about making my own decisions. I have had people try to entice me to send a nude photo, and the answer is simply No.

I guess what I'm saying here is that cutting your daughter off from internet chats and forums is probably not the best solution, but teaching her to stand up for herself, learn to say no, and learn what the red flags are for an internet predator might be a better way. That's what worked for me.

Also, for the record, I DID encounter a few predators as a teen. I recognized them pretty quickly and they got nowhere at all with me.

 

[rennecfox]

Sorry for the delay, the app is animo and it is an undertale chat that she is moderated so she got into private offshoot chats.

yeah amino is android, not undertale any way its not the game at the root of this anymore then mlp fim is a slasher series because of the brony fanbase. As for your daughter, you have to have a birds and bees kind of talk with her which is not going to be fun especially emphasizing the danger of these online things, seen way to many rob dyke stories that begin like this with the girls meeting these predators and never coming home afterwards.

 

[Entity]

Send the creepy guy these noods:



If he has any shred of self respect and a conscience in his head, he will realize the error of his ways. If he persists in more noods, get creative. There's hundreds of noodle pics on the internet, from spaghetti to chicken alfredo.
Most likely he'll get mad.