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So true. And often the history we learn the most from studying is that where we made mistakes and failed.Edgewater said:History is commonly said to hold the answers to the Future. What you have come across is an example that Humans continue to screw-up and many times, HUGELY! That said, there is great knowledge in History and we need to education ourself and accept its short-comes and build on its strengths.
As you know, the answer is to Love and Support our Child!
He's the reason I hope there's a hell, so he can burn in it for eternity.BobbiSueEllen said:Dr. John Money was not only a fraud but a damn sex pervert and systemic murderer. #RememberTheReimersRIP
On very rare occasions the scenarios and techniques described here can work and even more rarely might be appropriate. I have only seen one or two examples of this in my entire life, though (so it is quite rare).bedwetterdavid said:I found this book on raising children written in the 80s, and now I understand why so many parents were clueless. Was anyone else treated like bed wetting was your fault?
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People back then saw it as a sign of laziness, stubbornness, selfishness, mental illness, and future criminal behavior of various kinds and they were wrong on all of these points in nearly every instance.Wetshisbed said:Growing up in the 1960s and 70s most people saw bedwetting as a disgusting habit not a medical problem.
Bingo. America was fresh out of WW2 victory and in another phase of "Manifest Destiny" expansionism, the feeling we could take it all, suffer no consequences for it and that there was no weakness tolerable to conquer this 'Brave New World'. We were horrifically ignorant & arrogant...and it's only changed nominally.AJFan2020 said:More often, though the child usually has an undiagnosed condition like ADD/ADHD, Autism, Epilepsy, sleep apnea, allergies, or another condition entirely that just hasn’t been diagnosed yet. Not surprisingly these are the very conditions that many people who grew up back in the 1950s don’t believe in.
In my case, my parents, particularly my father, are extremely narcissistic and my best guess is that my having a problem with bed wetting was seen as an attack on their parenting skills. It's been a common theme in my life. Any imperfection on my part is viewed as a personal slight against them.LittleAndAlone said:Thing I don't understand is you should have a lot of adults who bed wet as a child who can either know or say from personal experience "no that's BS because I know I wasn't doing it on purpose". How does reading incorrect info suddenly defy everyone's real world experiences, and they just go along with it knowing it's false?
My mother was the narcissist when I was dealing with it. She and my father divorced when I was young, and she was very bitter over it. Therefore, every success I had was due to her wonderful parenting skills, and every failure was because I was being like my father. Of course, my sister was the golden child...killahB said:In my case, my parents, particularly my father, are extremely narcissistic and my best guess is that my having a problem with bed wetting was seen as an attack on their parenting skills. It's been a common theme in my life. Any imperfection on my part is viewed as a personal slight against them.
Please feel free to quote Carlin. I appreciate harsh truths.BobbiSueEllen said:I could quote Carlin...but that might make everybody angry.
OK, I know y'all love those compound nouns, let me see if my again mind can remember a bit of German:ThatDiaperDude said:Schuleingangsuntersuchung