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Hello all
As some of you know I’ve been working as a daddy. I’m four months in and I thought I’d share a few thoughts. I might add to this thread over time as I continue my journey, but here’s a few things I’d like to share:
1) littles are the best - I’m in my late 30s and been around the block. I can honestly say I’ve never met a group of as sweet and wonderful as littles. I’m not just saying that to make everyone feel good, it’s the God’s honest truth. Littles are so lovely. You’re so kind and gentle, and looking after littles has been one of the most enjoyable and rewarding things I’ve ever done. If the world had more littles in it it’d be a better place.
2) I have the most fun job in the world - everyday people get up and head to work in offices wearing suits and ties staring into a computer screen all day. I get to play with toy dinosaur and watch Bluey. Being a daddy is simply the most fun job anyone can have. Each session is a chance to play, jump around, and be silly. Honestly, I enjoy myself as much as my littles do, and so grateful to have the chance be silly for a living.
3) Scammers are evil - If you’ve read the post from the admins recently, or possibly from personal experience, you’ll know there are a lot of very bad people out there who take advantage of the community for financial gain. It’s awful that anyone can be so wicked, playing on the trust and needs of vulnerable people, not to mention creating mistrust between genuine carers and the little community. If you think you hate scammers, we (carers) hate them more. We put a lot of ourselves into our work and really care about the little community. Hearing about the harm caused by scammers is heartbreaking. Please be careful. Follow the advice the admins posted and take the time to make sure any mummy or daddy you’re considering booking a session with is genuine.
4) people are more supportive than I expected - I’m a pretty open book (I can thank my ADHD for that) and share what I do with most people. Surprisingly, given the stigma attached to ABDL, I’ve had really good responses. People have been supportive and shown real curiosity about my work. They may not understand littles and why I chose to be a carer (though some do once I’ve explained), but their opinion is essentially “It’s not my thing but who am I to judge.” The media are the worst culprits. They have nothing better to do that create sensational stories that sell papers. The truth is most people are fine and non-judgemental.
4) There have been lots of pleasent suprises - It’s remarkable how much has happened in such a short period of time, and my time as a daddy has seen a lot of surprises thrown up. I’ll just share one for now. I have a friend who I had been teasing by hinting at my job without telling her. Yesterday, I decided she’d suffered enough, and finally told her I am a daddy. She gave a squeal of delight and told me she was a little. I was stunned. We’ve known each other for years and shared everything, but I had no idea about her littleness. She was so excited finally have someone to share her passion with, and knew more about nappy brands than I did. So if you ever feel you’re the only little in the world, trust me that you’re not, and you never know when you’ll run into one.
OK, that’s more than enough for now. I’ll keep sharing on this thread. Feel free to comment or message to chat. If you’ve ever seen a carer, let me know how you’ve got on, or what your ideal session would look like (I’m always keen to learn)
Daddy Dylan x
As some of you know I’ve been working as a daddy. I’m four months in and I thought I’d share a few thoughts. I might add to this thread over time as I continue my journey, but here’s a few things I’d like to share:
1) littles are the best - I’m in my late 30s and been around the block. I can honestly say I’ve never met a group of as sweet and wonderful as littles. I’m not just saying that to make everyone feel good, it’s the God’s honest truth. Littles are so lovely. You’re so kind and gentle, and looking after littles has been one of the most enjoyable and rewarding things I’ve ever done. If the world had more littles in it it’d be a better place.
2) I have the most fun job in the world - everyday people get up and head to work in offices wearing suits and ties staring into a computer screen all day. I get to play with toy dinosaur and watch Bluey. Being a daddy is simply the most fun job anyone can have. Each session is a chance to play, jump around, and be silly. Honestly, I enjoy myself as much as my littles do, and so grateful to have the chance be silly for a living.
3) Scammers are evil - If you’ve read the post from the admins recently, or possibly from personal experience, you’ll know there are a lot of very bad people out there who take advantage of the community for financial gain. It’s awful that anyone can be so wicked, playing on the trust and needs of vulnerable people, not to mention creating mistrust between genuine carers and the little community. If you think you hate scammers, we (carers) hate them more. We put a lot of ourselves into our work and really care about the little community. Hearing about the harm caused by scammers is heartbreaking. Please be careful. Follow the advice the admins posted and take the time to make sure any mummy or daddy you’re considering booking a session with is genuine.
4) people are more supportive than I expected - I’m a pretty open book (I can thank my ADHD for that) and share what I do with most people. Surprisingly, given the stigma attached to ABDL, I’ve had really good responses. People have been supportive and shown real curiosity about my work. They may not understand littles and why I chose to be a carer (though some do once I’ve explained), but their opinion is essentially “It’s not my thing but who am I to judge.” The media are the worst culprits. They have nothing better to do that create sensational stories that sell papers. The truth is most people are fine and non-judgemental.
4) There have been lots of pleasent suprises - It’s remarkable how much has happened in such a short period of time, and my time as a daddy has seen a lot of surprises thrown up. I’ll just share one for now. I have a friend who I had been teasing by hinting at my job without telling her. Yesterday, I decided she’d suffered enough, and finally told her I am a daddy. She gave a squeal of delight and told me she was a little. I was stunned. We’ve known each other for years and shared everything, but I had no idea about her littleness. She was so excited finally have someone to share her passion with, and knew more about nappy brands than I did. So if you ever feel you’re the only little in the world, trust me that you’re not, and you never know when you’ll run into one.
OK, that’s more than enough for now. I’ll keep sharing on this thread. Feel free to comment or message to chat. If you’ve ever seen a carer, let me know how you’ve got on, or what your ideal session would look like (I’m always keen to learn)
Daddy Dylan x
And lots of daddy hugs to you too 
