SaturnineAcceptance
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This is hard but I have no where else to go. I have delt with night terrors most of my life due to complex PTSD. Those were troublesome but manageable.
Within the last couple of years I have developed night time incontinence also. I've already spoken to my psychiatrist and I'm on several medications already (but for other mental ailments/no physical related meds). He didn't have any ideas specifically for this. I also saw my OB to check my uterus/bladder position (fine/high up) and went to a Urologist. I have no physical causes for incontinence that they could find.
However, this problem is destroying my life and marriage. Even with adult diapers I have destroyed three king sized mattresses in these two years and number four hasn't even been switched to yet because my husband has no faith in me.
Please help me! How do I fix the current situation and how do I get a better future? I don't even know who to return to or what to ask for in regards to medical help.
The diapers I've used have been almost every adult brand I've seen in online reviews, excluding the side strap fitting ones. That might be part of the issue but I cannot get those to stay on with the movement issues associated with night terrors. So I have to use pull up style briefs. I haven't been going the cheap route either and it makes this even harder to justify. I went with Tranquility first and have gone through and read many reviews; even trying the space inspired Natural Care. None have made it consistently through an overnight. I'm currently using LivDry Ultimate and still having the issues. I will admit I do not use underpads or boosters. But I feel like if I add that expense I shouldn't be paying so much per diaper. Even an afternoon nap needs one. So minimum 30 per month but usually 60 as my sleep is broken up. Once I fall asleep I get no signals to wake up and go and I produce so much at night that all brands oversaturate. I can't set alarms to go either as I will not hear them. Voices wake me up but not alarms.
Just looking for advice for now (almost no dry nights yet and not only are the mattresses expensive but my husband hates me for this) and also advice for later (I've seen in online research things like Nocturia for night time overproduction but the med warning says don't take if you bed wet... So I don't know which DR to go to for help or what to say anymore).
This is difficult for me to fix, but doing nothing will cause me to lose everything.
Within the last couple of years I have developed night time incontinence also. I've already spoken to my psychiatrist and I'm on several medications already (but for other mental ailments/no physical related meds). He didn't have any ideas specifically for this. I also saw my OB to check my uterus/bladder position (fine/high up) and went to a Urologist. I have no physical causes for incontinence that they could find.
However, this problem is destroying my life and marriage. Even with adult diapers I have destroyed three king sized mattresses in these two years and number four hasn't even been switched to yet because my husband has no faith in me.
Please help me! How do I fix the current situation and how do I get a better future? I don't even know who to return to or what to ask for in regards to medical help.
The diapers I've used have been almost every adult brand I've seen in online reviews, excluding the side strap fitting ones. That might be part of the issue but I cannot get those to stay on with the movement issues associated with night terrors. So I have to use pull up style briefs. I haven't been going the cheap route either and it makes this even harder to justify. I went with Tranquility first and have gone through and read many reviews; even trying the space inspired Natural Care. None have made it consistently through an overnight. I'm currently using LivDry Ultimate and still having the issues. I will admit I do not use underpads or boosters. But I feel like if I add that expense I shouldn't be paying so much per diaper. Even an afternoon nap needs one. So minimum 30 per month but usually 60 as my sleep is broken up. Once I fall asleep I get no signals to wake up and go and I produce so much at night that all brands oversaturate. I can't set alarms to go either as I will not hear them. Voices wake me up but not alarms.
Just looking for advice for now (almost no dry nights yet and not only are the mattresses expensive but my husband hates me for this) and also advice for later (I've seen in online research things like Nocturia for night time overproduction but the med warning says don't take if you bed wet... So I don't know which DR to go to for help or what to say anymore).
This is difficult for me to fix, but doing nothing will cause me to lose everything.
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