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Okay I get your sentiment. But can you please try to have an open mind?greatlake5 said:First, for what I know, once you are NOT injured or sick, you remain continence. Saying you became incontinence and it isn't "fetishize," you're simply wrong. You identify yourself as abdl, not IC together. Whether you call it a fetish or not, you are "glamorize" our medical IC problems.
If you want to insist that you forced yourself to become IC, keep it away from the IC forum. Please. You sound like I nice guy. Sometimes I wonder why you insist on posting our IC issues, especially when it's not helpful.
For starters I am legitimately incontinent. It amuses me to no end how people who don’t know me and have no idea what I’ve gone through can insist I’m not incontinent because there is nothing “medically wrong” with me. It’s all over my medical chart , and each and every time I’ve tried to leave the house without a diaper on I have an accident. I don’t know how I’m supposed to prove it to you or anyone else. I’ll just say you can chose to believe me, or you can chose to assume the worst about me. It’s your call.
Would it make you feel at ease with me if instead of saying I made myself incontinent, I said that I’ve always had sensory issues related to the feeling of a full bladder? Maintaining bladder control always felt like work. Maybe if I wasn’t an ABDL I would push through it, but that’s neither here nor there. Or to put it another way, maybe there’s a reason why I was so successful at untraining.
You asked that I not post here anymore. I’m gonna tell you right now that’s a hard no. I am going to continue posting on the forum, because I AM incontinent, and I deserve to have a voice. I always go to great lengths to provide thoughtful and affirming replies.
The first thing I do every morning is check the ADISC incontinence forum to see what’s shaking. Interacting on this forum is one of the highlights of my day. And you don’t get to take that away from me.
So perhaps, rather than judging me and telling me I don’t belong here, appreciate that I have a unique perspective?
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