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Hello everyone, I'm nervous, it's the first time I've worn diapers to the movies, and I don't know what to wear so that it doesn't show, any advice? I am afraid of leaks or that the noise of the wet diaper will be heard, I think I am paranoid.
 
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Wear a high end diaper and plastic pants. Wear loose clothing. No one looks so just enjoy yourself.
 
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You got this! I know I get nervous when I wear in public, but no one is really paying attention. If you are worried of leaks, just wear something dark, to help with that!
Can’t wait to hear about your experience, it’s gonna be great!
 
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aleja said:
I think I am paranoid.
If it is only being diapered that you are worried about, then I recommend looking into your anxiety or fear.
 
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aleja said:
Hello everyone, I'm nervous, it's the first time I've worn diapers to the movies, and I don't know what to wear so that it doesn't show, any advice? I am afraid of leaks or that the noise of the wet diaper will be heard, I think I am paranoid.
I have gotton over this fear since becoming 24/7, If you can I would recommend wearing diapers for a week or wear some blue jeans over your diaper and it should not be that noticeable. For your case if its going to leak get some plastic pants if you can afford them.
 
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SeniorMan said:
If it is only being diapered that you are worried about then I recommend that you look into anxiety.
Agreed. I hope you get help. As someone with anxiety myself, there's no big deal and barely anyone will notice.
 
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I believe there are really good abdl diapers in Mexico called "Huaqui" brand. Those are very absorbent and should not leak.
They are as absorbent as most premium diapers, hope this helps.🙂
 
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aleja said:
Hello everyone, I'm nervous, it's the first time I've worn diapers to the movies, and I don't know what to wear so that it doesn't show, any advice? I am afraid of leaks or that the noise of the wet diaper will be heard, I think I am paranoid.
No one will know don’t worry
 
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I was out in public today and no one cared, even if it was noticeable
 
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If you can access Rearz mega diapers in time and tape them on well, it might work optimally for the movie theater--those have worked the best for me when sitting of all the many diapers I've tried although the ones I've tried (Critter Caboose) are noisy--the other mega ones from Rearz (Barnyard, Inspire+ and Safari) might not be as loud (but I don't know if they are or not).

Regardless of what diaper you choose to wear, you could experiment with what clothes might work best to keep the noise to a minimum. People probably would be a lot more likely to noice and remember a leak than rustling noises (which they might think might have come from something different than a diaper) so I recommend focusing on a diaper that keeps the contents in more-so than one that doesn't make much sound.

If you keep a drink handy the whole time and you notice that you leaked, you can shrewdly spill the drink on your pants on purpose in a way that covers your leak from people knowing about it (unless you think it would make you look clumsy or something if it's a more formal event)--if you do that though, I recommend using water so you don't potentially stain something or make something difficult to clean--I also recommend that you try to spill only a little and only around the area where your diaper leaked so you don't look too careless and so the spill can easily dry without potentially creating mold.
 
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Just be confident. No one pays attention to someone acting normally. Or generally to what someone has on under their pants.

Also this is part of the excitement, embrace it. 😎😎
 
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Seriously. You're sitting in a dark, maybe semi crowded, loud ass movie theater, who's gonna see or hear your diaper?
If you're concerned about the time you're standing in line for tickets or whatever else then wear an untucked button down shirt that covers your front and rear.
 
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I was very nerves first few months any more It doesn't matter ! Just like wearing panties now just with more padding ! ;)
 
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Be confident, and don't worry <3 you will be safe and no one will notice 🌸✨
 
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aleja said:
Hello everyone, I'm nervous, it's the first time I've worn diapers to the movies, and I don't know what to wear so that it doesn't show, any advice? I am afraid of leaks or that the noise of the wet diaper will be heard, I think I am paranoid.
Yes, everyone will know. In fact, before the movie, they put the names on the screen of everyone in the theater that is wearing diapers so everyone knows.
 
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No one will ever no you have a diaper on in a movie theatre. That's about the last place anyone would ever notice someone wearing a diaper. It's dark, people are focused on what's on the screen, no one is paying any attention to what someone is wearing. I wear cloth diapers and rubber pants, have been to hundreds of movies wearing diapers, have wet my diapers nearly every time I've been and no one has ever noticed. I realize that the first time can be nerve wracking, it was for me to, the second time only less so, but now I have no fear or worries. Once you have diapers a few times away from home you will never look back.
 
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In the situation of a movie theater I would go with a Abena level 4. Their rated for around 4 liters so it should be plenty to last you for a 2 hour movie. If you go with the cloth backed version it will be pretty much silent. If your worried about leaking, go with a pair of plastic pants as well. For clothing, these diapers are thicker so I would go with something loose fitting. I wear thick diapers often so all my clothes are already loose fitting so no one can tell. Enjoy your movie. :)
 
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What movie did ya see?
 
Lyric said:
Once you have diapers a few times away from home you will never look back.
I walk proudly in public showing off the best parts of my body whenever possible.
 
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