*Please pardon my "long-winded" introspection below. Posting long answers is simply the way that I am "wired. On a different note, I just discovered a new word during personal research into ABDL, which researchers call "Diaperism" so I am going to put it to use in this post.
After reading most of the answers in this particular thread, I think that most of us can agree that a common aspect of belonging to the ABDL community is living with the reality that
when we were young we thought we were the only ones who liked diapers. It is only later that we found out (for most via some form of Internet resource) that there are literally tens of thousands--if not perhaps hundreds of thousands--of other adults in the world JUST LIKE US who enjoyed diapers as as children and still do in some fashion as adults!
However, even with the availability of the Net, studies would seem to suggest that, not only are there very many ABDLs present in the world today, but that there is a potentially large community of "future ABDLs" growing up all around us without the general public even knowing it! You're asking,
"Huh? Future ABDLs?" Let me explain.
Remember, for a large portion of the current ABDL community, for the most part, the "world of diaperism" represents a harmless form of "coping mechanism" for dealing with all the crap that life throws at you, either when you were younger, or presently as an adult. And unfortunately, in 2021 life is still as crappy as it can get for many people. Thus, post infantile diaper-wearing doesn't seem like it is in any danger of disappearing any time soon. Personally, I can't help but wonder then, as I go out and about and see children, teens, young adults, older adults, etc., "How many of these people might, at this moment, be "into diapers" and yet they themselves likely do not know that sooooo many others are also "into diapers"?
I'm neither asking, nor expecting the wonderfully diverse world of ABDL to become mainstream or to become socially acceptable. I don't believe it CAN be socially acceptable because for a significant number of us who are ABDLs, diaperism is a private affair; other than those within the ABDL community, we generally don't want others knowing what we do in the privacy of our own homes. To invite the general public into our "safe space" is to invite all of the negativity and criticism and judgmental behaviors that diaperism helps us to escape from! In regards to the "diaper muggles" of the world ever finding out just how many of us there are among them, to borrow an immortal quote from the movie A Few Good Men,
"You can't handled the truth!"
So in closing, perhaps one day, like the "emancipation" of the LBGQ community, and the evolution of an entire generation of folks who "came out of the closet" to express their desires to be accepted as "different yet normal," maybe, just maybe, diaper wearing past the age of infancy will one day be generally accepted simply as an "alternate form of clothing." Who knows? But for now, I'm happy enough knowing that ALL OF YOU HERE IN THIS SAFE ABDL FORUM know about this "secret desire" that I have for diapers.
Wearing diapers past the age of infancy... thinking I was the only one who felt this way... I may have felt isolated when I was growing up, but not any more! Diapers are my safe space. The folks in the ABDL community are also part of my safe space... and I don't want my diapers or my diaper community to ever disappear!
Today is December 25th here in South Korea! Happy Holidays everyone!