LimeBloodedNoir
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Here is my little story. I am online, wanting to look up some pure wholesome ABDL videos! A healthy relationship!
lets just say- thats not what I got. Instead, I ran into many nsfw posts and videos.
I dont mind that others do that! Like- they do what they like, and good on them for finding there likes and dislikes!!! But...
If someone like my lover researches things like ABDLs, I fear that she will think its a fetish for everyone, despite me using it to cope with stress.
I am starting to realize that the ABDL community is not all just fun and diapers! Even though I am new, I really should have expected that due to the way it is talked about by some peers.
Nevertheless!
I want some advice!
I want to know your opinion!
Are you wholesome? Or the other?
What do you think of the other side?
Are you both?
What would your tips be for a healthy vanilla ABDL relationship?
How would you personally bring up the not so vanilla part to a lover?
How would YOU describe what a vanilla ABDL relationship looks like???
lets just say- thats not what I got. Instead, I ran into many nsfw posts and videos.
I dont mind that others do that! Like- they do what they like, and good on them for finding there likes and dislikes!!! But...
If someone like my lover researches things like ABDLs, I fear that she will think its a fetish for everyone, despite me using it to cope with stress.
I am starting to realize that the ABDL community is not all just fun and diapers! Even though I am new, I really should have expected that due to the way it is talked about by some peers.
Nevertheless!
I want some advice!
I want to know your opinion!
Are you wholesome? Or the other?
What do you think of the other side?
Are you both?
What would your tips be for a healthy vanilla ABDL relationship?
How would you personally bring up the not so vanilla part to a lover?
How would YOU describe what a vanilla ABDL relationship looks like???