relationship advice

  1. Abreeze

    My introduction

    Hi I’m new to the abdl community (I’m a diaper lover) and never have actually worn a diaper for but am looking to do so in the future. I’m in a stable loving relationship and am looking for advice on how to maintain a healthy relationship with my significant other despite me recently opening up...
  2. TheDiaperedCowboy

    Finding relationships while diapered

    Ok y’all I know I am new and I am posting a lot but I am just full of questions and seeking guidance. As I slowly get comfortable with the reality that I can’t stop my DL side, I worry about finding a women who is excepting of this side. Those who are in a relationship, how did y’all go about...
  3. D

    UPDATE on Boyfriend is DL - seeking advice

    Hi all, I posted in here the other day regarding my boyfriend who is DL and some questions/concerns I had: https://www.adisc.org/forum/threads/boyfriend-is-dl-seeking-advice.156425/#post-1987294 I am not DL and until I met my partner, I really did not know this was a thing, let alone a thing...
  4. lukethefur

    Daddy and Little Trouble (Relationship advice)

    Hey all, firstly just a warning that this post is going to be long and quite personal so if you do read through it, well done and thanks. I realise I come off as controlling, but please try and be empathetic in your responses. These are very fresh wounds for me So, I guess the main thing I'm...
  5. DiaperKidd49

    AB/DL marriage and children.

    Are there any straight AB/DLs out there that would like to have children of their own one day like me?
  6. LimeBloodedNoir

    To make diapers pure (warning! Mentions some gross stuff!)

    To Make Diapers Pure Here is my little story. I am online, wanting to look up some pure wholesome ABDL videos! A healthy relationship! lets just say- thats not what I got. Instead, I ran into many nsfw posts and videos. I dont mind that others do that! Like- they do what they like, and good on...
  7. D

    Girlfriend's a little, where do we start with the diapers?

    Hi, my girlfriend and I have been together for the best part of the year, and around a month or so ago, she told me that she was a little. I'm actually into all this as well, but more as someone who likes other people in diapers (although not as much as she likes it), and we've been slowly going...
  8. A

    When/How to tell s/o?

    I pretty much am only active on here to get advice so I apologize for that... but tl;dr- I slipped into headspace with my girlfriend one night but I'm not sure she picked up on it. My friend said I should just get it out of the way now but I'm not sure if I can or how to go about it... I posted...
  9. W

    Struggling wife of baby... any helpful advise?

    Hi Community, I'm hoping you can help me with some suggestions. I've been married to an adult baby for several years and am STILL struggling with the fantasy. Logically, I like the idea of the fantasy and even used to play with him, but am getting discouraged because it is not getting easier...
  10. I

    Diapers at Pokemon Go Fest

    So my partner and I made the questionable decision to attend Pokemon Go fest in Chicago this weekend. As I'm sure you all heard it was a bit of a cluster. This wasn't helped by the fact that I was wearing the entire time and was dying inside my diaper from the heat. Any tips for how to wear...
  11. Neet

    Anxiety (OCD), Diapers, and my relationship.

    For the past two months I've been diaper free. I've been pushing my ab/dl side of my life away, trying to deny its existence. Naturally, it hasn't been going so well. For the past 4 years of my life (5 this September <3 ) I've been with my girlfriend who I can't see myself happily living...
  12. R

    DLs and relationship life

    Hey guys! So i am just wondering how some of you DLs have "came out" to your non abdl partner? How did you introduce it/what do you recommend? What were their reactions as soon as you mentioned it? I am just looking for insight on how to go about it. Im not currently in a relationship but...
  13. P

    How to be a better daddy

    Hi everyone! So I just told my hubby about my little / ABDL side and he is totally supportive and wants to learn more. Pleeease give him any advice you can. Here’s a message from him:::: Hello all, I would like to learn how to become a Daddy, and learn more about this lifestyle and/or fantasy...
  14. kashi

    Relationships and being a little

    Writing this is a struggle finally admitting this to myself has been hard and now I feel really incredibly lost and I due to anxiety I feel like I can't talk to any of the people in my life who know about my little side because I feel as if I turn to them for help to often and I'm just not...
  15. Strong

    Telling a SO.

    Yesterday, I decided to tell my boyfriend about my DL side. It took a lot to get it out, and immediately afterwards it felt good til have confided in someone. This morning, however, I woke up feeling worried that him finding out about my DL side may have affected how he views me. Apparently he...
  16. G

    Do you believe it can be too late to tell a partner?

    Hi guys, I've been mulling this over for a while and just wanted to get others ideas on the subject. I'll give a little back story in case it's needed: My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly four years now, we've been together since we were 15 and still in a strong, loving...
  17. N

    non abdl girlfriend needing help coming to terms with abdl boyfriend

    Hi Everyone, I really could use some help. I have been dating my abdl boyfriend for over a year now, and have known about this part of his life for around 9 months... It's difficult to understand why I need help coming to terms with this part of his life now, even though i've known for a while...
  18. bbabysitter26

    I have a momy, but do I stay with her?

    In March of 2010 I met a girl 8 years older than me (I was 22 and she was 30). We met because we just happened to be renting rooms from the same guy. She was immediately attracted to me and we eventually hit it off. We were together for almost a year. I told her everything about me. All of...
  19. pldc

    Some AB relationship advice for a DL

    So here's the deal... I'm in a long term relationship and before I moved in with my girlfriend I wanted to tell her about my desires and feelings regarding my habits. This was by far the hardest thing I've ever had to do, and I was totally stressed out when I told her. The reason why I told...
  20. macabre

    Help Wanted: Assurance of Some-sort

    I like to read, and so I do, a lot. And I have noticed a trend in ABDL fiction, alot of sex/sexual behavior and bondage/BDSM play to an incredible degree. I like sex, I like BDS (not really into S&M...at all, really), and I really like the idea of taking care of an *B. However, I could not let...
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