Wondering for the IC folks, who knows about your issues, and especially you use of diapers?
I've been IC for a few years now, in diapers for a little over a year. My issues got worse very quickly. I progressed from wetting the bed a few times to full blown urge incontinence in a matter of maybe 6 months.
My wife, and of course, doctors know. To the best of my knowledge my mom and brother do not. I don't live with them, but I see them often. Same with my in-laws and all my friends. If any of them know, they've never let on that they know.
At work, I change either in the restaurant down in my building's lobby (I work in an inner city high-rise) or I'll walk up to a fast food joint and use their bathroom. Once in a while I'll do it in the work restroom but only when no one is in there. I have, on a few occasions, wasted 15+ minutes hiding in a stall waiting for everyone to be gone. I've had half of my new diaper taped on, and then had to just stand their because someone came in and I've waited for them to take a leisurely dump. I'm sick of doing that.
I'm starting to consider just "coming out" for lack of a better term. I'm not talking about making an announcement to my coworkers, or even telling anyone. But rather, I'm considering just walking into the restroom from now on and just doing what I need to do.
If I do this, it's only a matter of time before everyone finds out I wear diapers. Sure, not everyone is going to hear those sounds and think "diaper", but many people would probably put it together. Plus, If I'm walking into the bathroom with a back pack every time, people will start to put 2 and 2 together.
I'm honestly just getting tired of hiding. It's not a pride thing like feeling like I shouldn't have to be ashamed so I want to "come out", but it's just so inconvenient to always have to sneak off to another location to change.
Some of my coworkers I've known for over 10 years. I've worked with some of them here and at another firm. I'm just afraid of all of a sudden all of them knowing I wear diapers. I know none of them would be rude or say anything to my face. Some of them I consider friends so I'd imagine they'd be pretty respectful of it. But it's hard for me to make that leap.
Anyway just wondering what some of you do, especially with work.
I've been IC for a few years now, in diapers for a little over a year. My issues got worse very quickly. I progressed from wetting the bed a few times to full blown urge incontinence in a matter of maybe 6 months.
My wife, and of course, doctors know. To the best of my knowledge my mom and brother do not. I don't live with them, but I see them often. Same with my in-laws and all my friends. If any of them know, they've never let on that they know.
At work, I change either in the restaurant down in my building's lobby (I work in an inner city high-rise) or I'll walk up to a fast food joint and use their bathroom. Once in a while I'll do it in the work restroom but only when no one is in there. I have, on a few occasions, wasted 15+ minutes hiding in a stall waiting for everyone to be gone. I've had half of my new diaper taped on, and then had to just stand their because someone came in and I've waited for them to take a leisurely dump. I'm sick of doing that.
I'm starting to consider just "coming out" for lack of a better term. I'm not talking about making an announcement to my coworkers, or even telling anyone. But rather, I'm considering just walking into the restroom from now on and just doing what I need to do.
If I do this, it's only a matter of time before everyone finds out I wear diapers. Sure, not everyone is going to hear those sounds and think "diaper", but many people would probably put it together. Plus, If I'm walking into the bathroom with a back pack every time, people will start to put 2 and 2 together.
I'm honestly just getting tired of hiding. It's not a pride thing like feeling like I shouldn't have to be ashamed so I want to "come out", but it's just so inconvenient to always have to sneak off to another location to change.
Some of my coworkers I've known for over 10 years. I've worked with some of them here and at another firm. I'm just afraid of all of a sudden all of them knowing I wear diapers. I know none of them would be rude or say anything to my face. Some of them I consider friends so I'd imagine they'd be pretty respectful of it. But it's hard for me to make that leap.
Anyway just wondering what some of you do, especially with work.