babyraggydolls
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I’m still feeling upset about what happened in Asda, I went to get groceries and I was stood there in a lot of pain with my bad legs and back and this lady (couldn’t read her name tag) came up to me, the first thing I noticed was a T-shirt that said “Happy to Help” but little did I know I wasn’t going to get any help, but instead I was repeatedly shouted at for using the wide land tills for disabled people, despite the fact I’m disabled and she tried to bully me in to using a smaller lane / till and I had a brain fart just blerted out, I’m trying to get bags to pack in to and more moody remarks came out of her mouth and I just ignored it, paid for my shopping and asked for the manager. The manager the hole time I was telling him what was wrong was looking down at his shoes and I said what happened and that I was really upset and he did apologise and said he would talk to the member of staff, what really gets me is not everyone’s disabilities are visible so to yell at someone rather than politely ask and the fact that she kept muttering stuff under her breath when my back was turned (my partner was watching the hat was going on)
My mobility is impaired, I can’t get on or off of a toilet unaided and I struggle walking or bending and it’s people like that, that make having issues so much worse because you have to deal with unpleasantness. I spend a lot of money in that store, not that it matters but I don’t shop there to be treated like dirt. I didn’t really know how to handle the situation other than to just get away from it as quickly as possible and then when I felt safe, complained. When I was younger and in good health they turned me down for a job at the supermarket (not Asda) and instead unpleasant, horrible people get the job instead.
My mobility is impaired, I can’t get on or off of a toilet unaided and I struggle walking or bending and it’s people like that, that make having issues so much worse because you have to deal with unpleasantness. I spend a lot of money in that store, not that it matters but I don’t shop there to be treated like dirt. I didn’t really know how to handle the situation other than to just get away from it as quickly as possible and then when I felt safe, complained. When I was younger and in good health they turned me down for a job at the supermarket (not Asda) and instead unpleasant, horrible people get the job instead.
they have been to me before too when I've been struggling with noise and not been able to scan at the self checkouts fast enough. It's really difficult to explain sometimes when you have an invisible disability and I do too. I've thought about getting one of those sunflower lanyards because explaining on the spot is difficult especially if already stressed or under pressure. Not sure if they're trained to spot those and know what they are or not, but they should be.