Absolutely!
The legal commentary states that HMRC were receiving an unexpectedly high amount of VAT on private pad/diaper sales. As a result, they said that shops should remove VAT from diaper sales, and not require a VAT-exemption declaration. (The commentary even says, "
We accept that due to their specialist nature only eligible individuals are likely to buy incontinence products."
No one told them about us lot, then!)
The idea was to make it simpler/easier/quicker/less-embarrassing for incontinent people to buy diapers, and to make sure that no one was paying VAT when they didn't need to.
They are on most medical supplies, but NOT on diapers*. In fact, the legislation actively says that they SHOULDN'T ask for VAT-exemption declarations. But yes, you're right -- the grey area comes when a company asks for a declaration when none is required!
There is a free-text box to write in the nature of your disability and reason for VAT-exemption. I
believe that so long as you complete the declaration truthfully (i.e. don't mention a disability, just write in why you're exempt), it would be legal.
(* - when sold in quantities of 200 or fewer pads to private individuals for personal use, with no other VAT-chargeable products in the same order.)
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I seem to remember that the law is quite strict on what constitutes a "relevant" disability. I think you'd actually need to be incontinent in order to qualify for VAT-exemption on incontinence products. (Except diapers*, as explained above.)
I think it would be illegal to state that you are buying diapers for a disability that isn't incontinence. However, if you are not incontinent and qualify to buy them VAT-free*, then (back to the grey area), I believe that writing, "
Not applicable -- fewer than 200 incontinence pads for personal use," would mean that you stay within the law. But I'm not a lawyer!
If you're really worried, contact the seller and ask them not to force you to make a VAT-declaration when you don't need to.
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Not quite. Diapers/pads* are the one exception where you DON'T need to self-certify.
They've got it wrong if you need to self-certify to get VAT exemption on <=200 diapers. You only need to self-certify where you DO have a registered disability (or have something other that pads/diapers in your order).
The NappiesRUs FAQ page below makes it clear that they are talking about disability-related VAT-exemption, for which non-incontinent ABDLs would not qualify:
VAT Exemption Information for personal use on Incontinence Products
www.nappiesrus.co.uk
This is how the law works for medical supplies in general (including onesies, etc.). And the same law used to apply to pads/diapers too. But some time ago, the presumption of VAT-exemption for diapers* was introduced. And that's separate to disability-related VAT-exemption.
It's infuriating, because a lot of online shops do this, seemingly unaware of the changes to the law that were years ago now.