So, I kind of have a dilemma that I would like some opinion on...
My partner just asked me the other day if she could try to put me in a diaper/change my diaper. The thing is, she does not know about my diaper liking. It is not something I have ever told her about...
The question came up as we are expecting our first child, expected to be delivered next week - she has never tried changing a babys diaper, and therefore wanted to 'practice' on me. I know it was said partly as a joke - partly seriously. We already bought new born diapers etc. - so proposed trying one of those. I said I'm pretty sure they won't fit. She then proposed a 'Drynites' pyjamas pant (I bought for her at one point, but that's another story). For which i replied, that those are pants - and does not have the tapes of a new born diaper... Anyways the conversation died out shortly hereafter...
So, the thing is: I have an unopened pack of ABU Kiddo (single tape) diapers hidden somewhere, that I'm considering bringing 'in to the play'.
My idea is bring them in one of the next days saying something like: "So I thought it could be fun to practice diaper change before we get the baby, so after you brought up the idea the other day, I have been thinking about it and I found out that you could get baby styled diapers in adult sizes online. I therefore bought a pack of these, so we can practice a bit if you still think it could be fun. I'm actually also curious to try what it is like to wear a baby diaper again. Should we give it a try?"
I don't want to scare her of obviously... I'm not sure how she would react, so thats why I'm asking for your advice.
Bonus info concerning her 'view on diapers': I bought the Drynites pyjamas pants for her at one point when she had an UTI, and she felt like peeing her pants all the time. I bought them for her in the supermarket without her knowing. She said it was the cutest thing anyone has ever done for her... I never explicitly told her that I was into her wearing them, but when she had them on, i complimented how cute she was looking and felt her up. A few weeks after the UTI was gone, I even got her to wear one, when I casually came across the pack, and 'for fun' asked her to put one on. After felling her on the outside of drynites, we had sex (with the diaper around har angles), and after sex she pulled it up, and fell asleep in it...
So, should I bring in diapers and see where it goes (the perfect excuse window is closing in) or should I forget about, and avoid the risk of putting her through stressfull thoughts closely before giving birth?