Anyone can doctor photos and videos especially if she was the one who contacted you. I will tell you this. Do not fall for others in your desperation. Caretakers and caretaking comes with trust. You’re not just going to get someone contacting you and offering to change you and take you to their nursery. If you are confused or stressed that is a black flag and 30 red flags covering the field. DO NOT DISREGARD INTUITION. We all want the white picket fence, but I will tell you this. A real caretaker isn’t in it for the money. It’s never about the money. A real caretaker will know when they found the right little and it comes in patience, care, and real genuine caring.
Anyone can change a diaper. Anyone can act the part. But you will never be satisfied until you find a real one. Not one temporary. If other people are warning you you should bail on the spot don’t even read into it. Otherwise you can have what happened to me and have your little side crushed to where you don’t even want to be baby for months.
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Caretakers who are real are in it for the love of helping others not getting popular online. I am someone who has done caretaking before and it is something that comes with great time and trust. Even in a temporary situation there is checks of needs on BOTH sides , and many outside communication before even considering to jump in play. If you didn’t it would be the same thing to go to a convention jump into a random strangers arms and be baby. That isn’t respectful to either side. You don’t get trust and they SURE don’t trust you. This is why caretaking even in meetups is meticulously planned and safety procedures are in place. If they contacted you with a bunch of photos saying “look at me and what I have I see your little your nearby come live at my place forever”
Then trust me it will not end well. You could be stuck in a loop during play about costs and what will this cost and you won’t be able to completely be baby, because your worrying about cost and them as well, calculating the end result for some cost.
So consider it harsh but pay-to-play caretakers im sorry are not real caretakers because the love is not real. Anyone can act. Anyone. But when it’s real, you will know. And this does not sound real or safe what you are describing. Please be careful