Babyman1224
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Hi there,
I’ve posted a couple of times in the recent past and had a question for those of you in a relationship with someone with abdl desires. My wife and I have a great relationship minus the few stupid things I do from time to time. She’s completely accepting of this side of me and a willing participant. She understands my past better than I do some days. I’ve been burned in a prior relationship of many years with my high school sweetheart who knew nothing of my “insanity”. Sorry if I seem offensive but most days than not I struggle with this side of me and look at it as a bit insane. My ex wife was not willing and was repulsed by me after it was put out into the open. I was crushed. Long story short I met my wife not too long after I got divorced and we hit it off. I made the same mistake by not telling her until we were married. Yeah I know I’m not the brightest bulb at times and fortunately my current wife was far more accepting once I told her. We didn’t do much with it because we were raising kids and I didn’t think it fair to ask her to tend to me while tending to those that really need it. So here we are now kids all older and self sufficient for the most part and doing the things we do together. My question is for those that are accepting willing participants in their significant others desires did you have a problem with your “little” accepting that you were accepting? I myself am super apprehensive now with my secret desires and constantly worry that my wife isn’t really cool with everything on the inside. Now mind you she’s never given me any indication that she is apprehensive it’s just my own paranoid proclivities rearing their ugly heads. I’m just curious to see how many others have dealt with this and how you handled it. I don’t want to piss my wife off by constantly asking her if she really is okay with everything. I’m normally the most confident person in a room but when it comes to this side of me I’m literally a scared timid little boy who is afraid of being hurt again. Any input would be greatly appreciated. I don’t want to ruin a good thing with insecurity but I gotta believe most of us with this affliction suffer from a plethora of insecurities.
I’ve posted a couple of times in the recent past and had a question for those of you in a relationship with someone with abdl desires. My wife and I have a great relationship minus the few stupid things I do from time to time. She’s completely accepting of this side of me and a willing participant. She understands my past better than I do some days. I’ve been burned in a prior relationship of many years with my high school sweetheart who knew nothing of my “insanity”. Sorry if I seem offensive but most days than not I struggle with this side of me and look at it as a bit insane. My ex wife was not willing and was repulsed by me after it was put out into the open. I was crushed. Long story short I met my wife not too long after I got divorced and we hit it off. I made the same mistake by not telling her until we were married. Yeah I know I’m not the brightest bulb at times and fortunately my current wife was far more accepting once I told her. We didn’t do much with it because we were raising kids and I didn’t think it fair to ask her to tend to me while tending to those that really need it. So here we are now kids all older and self sufficient for the most part and doing the things we do together. My question is for those that are accepting willing participants in their significant others desires did you have a problem with your “little” accepting that you were accepting? I myself am super apprehensive now with my secret desires and constantly worry that my wife isn’t really cool with everything on the inside. Now mind you she’s never given me any indication that she is apprehensive it’s just my own paranoid proclivities rearing their ugly heads. I’m just curious to see how many others have dealt with this and how you handled it. I don’t want to piss my wife off by constantly asking her if she really is okay with everything. I’m normally the most confident person in a room but when it comes to this side of me I’m literally a scared timid little boy who is afraid of being hurt again. Any input would be greatly appreciated. I don’t want to ruin a good thing with insecurity but I gotta believe most of us with this affliction suffer from a plethora of insecurities.