I know that feeling! One time I picked up the diapers from the Amazon Locker and left it in my car and then she called in sick so I had to scramble to find a way to hide those diapers!sparkes2008 said:
my car boot is where i keep all my stuff. Knowing its there is adding to the frustration. Im happy my wife is on the mend but im so #raging that it happened this week. Next 2 weeks kid off school for easter hols!jamiejamie said:
yea. I have a pick-up truck so I gotta take the diapers out of the package and spread them out between the backseat and the back of the truck inside a trash bag where you cant see what the contents of the bag is.sparkes2008 said:
Uuuuuugggghhhh!sparkes2008 said:
In a perfect world you’d be right but as we all know it ain’t like that.LittleMonsterUK said:
I disagree with that I'm not compromising a single component or my character in any relationship I'd rather be alone then hide any aspect of myself to hide all that and stand on the alter... mind blowingSubtlerustle said:
Grown fully autonomous adults shouldn't have to clear anything with anyone. Those kinds of wives sound like tyrannical authoritarian dictators. That's so ridiculous lol. Just be sure to reciprocate and don't be a hypocrite is all.BigAl1 said:
Ive had many a foiled diaper days . I live in a busy household, lots of kids ,mother in law in tow...lots going on all the time. So theres very little time for diaper days where I can just wear by myself and enjoy them. Wifes not into the diaper thing, dont want the kids seeing me around the house in diapers, and my mother in law would just not understand. So Im left with the rare days when every ones out and Im home. Ive had the same thing where everything would align and everyone would be out. Then of course someone would get sick and have to stay home, or my mother in law would feel she would want to spend the day with me to talk and catch up, so its never been easy having an actual diaper day to just wear and not worry about anyone being home or walking in on me.sparkes2008 said:
Yeah its a shame your nappy holiday didnt go as planned. Hope you get a nappy day soon though xxxsparkes2008 said:
Sounds like you’re in a good place with abdl and your identity. Hopefully you were always in possession of such clarity. I’d guess the majority in our community weren’t gifted with instant clarity and made some mistakes and bad assumptions along the way and next thing you know you’re married or in a long term relationship without the SO knowing. There the conundrum begins. Risk/reward calculations and so on. I’m just trying to say not everyone has the same set of circumstances and as a community we can learn from each others victories and failures.LittleMonsterUK said:
Okay yeah in that newfound perspective I can see it from the different angles now so after understanding that I see this user has found and understood their identity with ABDL so I strongly encourage him to bring forward this news with his wife as always I'd recommend the bookSubtlerustle said:
We are on the same page mate. It’s a good book and fortunately my wife and I had already done the ground work before it was published though we used her in a couples session once. Like you suggest, it’s best to know thyself and be open with any potential long term partner early. Like Sinatra said in My Way “Regrets, I’ve had a few”LittleMonsterUK said:Okay yeah in that newfound perspective I can see it from the different angles now so after understanding that I see this user has found and understood their identity with ABDL so I strongly encourage him to bring forward this news with his wife as always I'd recommend the book
You're Not Broken: Dr. Rhoda's Guide to Strong Self Worth for AB/DLs
And thank you for the different perspective @Subtlerustle equally if you're in the same position or similar I'd strongly advise the same as you're only hurting yourself in the long run and life's too short
