hiddendutchman
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Hi there,
So since I was 11-12 I have a high interest in wearing/peeing diapers and omorashi.
I love to see girly/cute woman hold their pee to the extreme, and pee their pants or diaper.
I am not an AB, only a diaper lover, but I do love when a women is acting like an adorable girl in her diaper, wearing pink etc.
I am almost 29 years old now, and I have a lovely girlfriend for 8 years now, she is a few years younger than I am.
She is (finally!!! ) moving in this summer which I am very excited about, but it's gonna make things difficult when it comes to my diaper/pee fetish, so I am thinking about telling her.
She is a bit aware of the fact that I like to have sex when I or she has to pee, we push on each other's bladder sometimes, and she's sometimes teasing with 'Oooh you have a pee fetish dont you?'. Shes not trying to be mean though.
So I was thinking about a way to tell her.
There is some kind of cartoon on YouTube we both think is funny, and they also have a music video singing about a girl that likes poopsex, it's quite funny.
Sometimes I randomly play it out very loud for the laughs. (I am not into poopsex or pooping in diapers though!).
So I was thinking about playing that video again, and then ask her 'What would you do if I had a fetish like that, what would you do if I would say right now that I have a poop fetish? Would you leave me? How would you deal with that?'.
This way I could see how she would react and decide if I am going to tell her about my two fetishes or not.
If I decide to do it, I would start with the pee fetish first, because she is partly aware of that. I would explain her the fetish goes further for me, and that I fantasize about woman peeing their pants, especially her.
Then I would explain that it goes it combination with a diaper fetish and all. That I like to wear them, but that it is mostly because I want so simulate how it would feel for a woman, and sometimes for convienence and relaxing. But I would also tell her that if she doesn't want to do anything with it, it would be completely fine, she goes first, ALWAYS.
Of course my dream and fantasy would be to share this fetish with her. Let her drink lots of water, putting a diaper on her. Since she has pee shyness(paruresis) it can become even more interesting. Holding till she can't hold back and let her pee her diaper and have sex. But if she refuses, I'll accept that, I don't wanna push her.
The only thing that is holding me back though is the fact that I am a bit older and I am her 'man'.
I'm afraid she is going to look different towards me because I like diapers, I might be no longer the man that protects her. She might think I am a vulnerable little boy after telling her.
How did you guys deal with that?
So since I was 11-12 I have a high interest in wearing/peeing diapers and omorashi.
I love to see girly/cute woman hold their pee to the extreme, and pee their pants or diaper.
I am not an AB, only a diaper lover, but I do love when a women is acting like an adorable girl in her diaper, wearing pink etc.
I am almost 29 years old now, and I have a lovely girlfriend for 8 years now, she is a few years younger than I am.
She is (finally!!! ) moving in this summer which I am very excited about, but it's gonna make things difficult when it comes to my diaper/pee fetish, so I am thinking about telling her.
She is a bit aware of the fact that I like to have sex when I or she has to pee, we push on each other's bladder sometimes, and she's sometimes teasing with 'Oooh you have a pee fetish dont you?'. Shes not trying to be mean though.
So I was thinking about a way to tell her.
There is some kind of cartoon on YouTube we both think is funny, and they also have a music video singing about a girl that likes poopsex, it's quite funny.
Sometimes I randomly play it out very loud for the laughs. (I am not into poopsex or pooping in diapers though!).
So I was thinking about playing that video again, and then ask her 'What would you do if I had a fetish like that, what would you do if I would say right now that I have a poop fetish? Would you leave me? How would you deal with that?'.
This way I could see how she would react and decide if I am going to tell her about my two fetishes or not.
If I decide to do it, I would start with the pee fetish first, because she is partly aware of that. I would explain her the fetish goes further for me, and that I fantasize about woman peeing their pants, especially her.
Then I would explain that it goes it combination with a diaper fetish and all. That I like to wear them, but that it is mostly because I want so simulate how it would feel for a woman, and sometimes for convienence and relaxing. But I would also tell her that if she doesn't want to do anything with it, it would be completely fine, she goes first, ALWAYS.
Of course my dream and fantasy would be to share this fetish with her. Let her drink lots of water, putting a diaper on her. Since she has pee shyness(paruresis) it can become even more interesting. Holding till she can't hold back and let her pee her diaper and have sex. But if she refuses, I'll accept that, I don't wanna push her.
The only thing that is holding me back though is the fact that I am a bit older and I am her 'man'.
I'm afraid she is going to look different towards me because I like diapers, I might be no longer the man that protects her. She might think I am a vulnerable little boy after telling her.
How did you guys deal with that?
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