"it's all in your head"

[Babypat96]

A while back I posted that I was at family's place and my stepmother caught me in the diaper so today I phoned her just now she's 72 and i said the reason I wanted to live on my own was so I could do my fetish in private then she Said"li

you're too old to be doing that aren't u?: you and then she said people probably put the day wearing the diapers in your head and you think you have to wear them

I'm like there's who wear to and then she goes yeah for old people and like a there's a community of people known as adult babies baby to pretend the babies and stuff and because then I told her I just had to since12 and no one put it in my head and in the abdl behavior is in the psychiatry books

she just doesn't get me

 

[caitianx]

That was my Mom.
"Diapers are only for babies and elderly in the nursing home!"
Just go ahead and wear a diaper.
I do.

 

[dogboy]

My mom was amazing in that she knew of adult babies but unfortunately she was not accepting of me wearing diapers. This was when she found my used diaper and gay porn. In addition to making an appointment for me with a psychiatrist, she would also leave pamphlets in my bedroom that were based on becoming and being a man. It would really piss me off and I couldn't even wear a diaper to piss in....sigh. It was a tough time for me and I was glad when it sort of blew over. It was my senior year in college and after graduation I got a job and moved to another state.

 

[Babypat96]

Update when I went over there I showed her adult babies and she said "wow those people have issues" she thought I was the only one like a this

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

she would also leave pamphlets in my bedroom that were based on becoming and being a man.

That would set me off, hard. Absolutely NOBODY determines my gender except myself. If they want to turn and walk out of my life, that's okay by me. Goodbye to them. I have a life to live and be happy with; none of that is for them to determine in any measure. Just because someone "gave me life" does not obligate me to live it by their rules. I didn't ask to be born but I'm here so I'll live as I feel...until I can't live anymore.

Gads...some people...

 

[MissMummyUK]

pamphlets in my bedroom that were based on becoming and being a man.

I would so much love to know if brochures like that are available somewhere, for a research I am doing!

 

[LittleAndAlone]

Everything about anything and everything is all literally in your head.

 

[LittleAndAlone]

That would set me off, hard. Absolutely NOBODY determines my gender except myself. If they want to turn and walk out of my life, that's okay by me. Goodbye to them. I have a life to live and be happy with; none of that is for them to determine in any measure. Just because someone "gave me life" does not obligate me to live it by their rules. I didn't ask to be born but I'm here so I'll live as I feel...until I can't live anymore.

Gads...some people...

Lol what is this horse .

How to be society's man? Puff your chest, abuse women, be mean to children, and be aggressive and confrontational and treat everything as a ego challenge all the time and disregard taking care of yourself? Gross.

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

Everything about anything and everything is all literally in your head.

Well, it's not in my pancreas or my left pinky-toe.

Hunger is in my head. Hunger is vital. As is exhaustion, hope, worry, the desire to achieve, the want for understanding...a certain mode of comfort & peace. Everything is in our heads...everything is vital. And the masses randomly pick & choose, at-whim, which to embrace and which to deny "for the universal good of all". Fools...

 

[Mommasboy]

Well, it's not in my pancreas or my left pinky-toe.

Hunger is in my head. Hunger is vital. As is exhaustion, hope, worry, the desire to achieve, the want for understanding...a certain mode of comfort & peace. Everything is in our heads...everything is vital. And the masses randomly pick & choose, at-whim, which to embrace and which to deny. Fools...

Ive always liked the analogy of "which wolves need feeding today", sounds kinda dark but it helps me focus on what needs i need to focus on in any given moment. Taking care of oneself is hard

 

[Sealander]

It is in our head... so what?

 

[dogboy]

That would set me off, hard. Absolutely NOBODY determines my gender except myself. If they want to turn and walk out of my life, that's okay by me. Goodbye to them. I have a life to live and be happy with; none of that is for them to determine in any measure. Just because someone "gave me life" does not obligate me to live it by their rules. I didn't ask to be born but I'm here so I'll live as I feel...until I can't live anymore.

Gads...some people...

This was 1970 and having finally being caught was mortifying for me. It was a tough time for me as I had come home from college for the weekend and right before dinner with invited company, I started crying and couldn't stop. Being gay and wanting to wear diapers was something I just couldn't understand. There was no internet and there was no one I could talk to regarding wanting to wear and wet my diapers. I had my first psychotic break when I was 12 years old when my parents went bankrupt and we had to move, me leaving a friend I really cared about and now this was my second one.

That first visit to the psychiatrist that my mom set up was really tough. I can remember sitting in the waiting room. I think he was a psychiatrist for teens and young people because the two or three others in the waiting room were around my age. I couldn't help but think here I am, genuinely loving several guys who were in my life and then the whole diaper thing. I was convinced I was crazy and of course, our judgemental society, especially at that time only confirmed my feelings. I wanted to change, to be straight and to not want diapers but we all know how that goes.

The one type of person I can't stand is the person that thinks homosexuality is a choice and I would add the same thing for all of us who want and/or need diapers for our mental wellbeing. What gives people who don't bother to research us the right to judge us?

 

[mistykitty]

Please don't take this the wrong way but that type of closemindedness is exactly why abdl has a bad rep. So what we like diapers if it's not hurting anyone who cares as long as it's not rubbed in people's faces. She said it's all in the head well mentioning what @LittleAndAlone and @Sealander said so is 99% of everything else we act upon including our dl, ab, little sides or some combination of all. It's no issue and it's sad that some just can't take them time to understand that. But as others have said don't let the prejudices of others rule you, do what makes you happy.

 

[PGAFAN2008]

Update when I went over there I showed her adult babies and she said "wow those people have issues" she thought I was the only one like a this

Your mother thinks you're the only one, then says THEY have issues? Not very subtle of her.

May as well remind her that we're all living in a simulation anyways, am I right? Who needs a head when that's the case? I wish you could be able to patch this whole conflict. A lack of understanding from close family members always hurts to hear about from someone.

 

[killahB]

What gives people who don't bother to research us the right to judge us?

Ignorance, smug self-righteousness, and a desire to hurt others to make themselves feel better would be my guess. To hell with them! As long as you are respecting the rights of others, live your life in a manner that pleases you.