After starting to wear diapers 24/7 I've become less and less concerned about being discrete. I used to wear baggy pants and shirts that covered well past my waist so my diaper would not be noticed. After a while I stopped worrying became completely comfortable and stopped stressing about it . If my waistband is showing or the bulge is obvious who really cares. I need to wear for my urinary incontinence, it's just part of me and my diapers are just part of my wardrobe. No more being embarrassed buying diapers at the store or talking about it with others. I not only need to wear but I love to wear as well and becoming comfortable with that has made my life so much more comfortable.