Sine late teens, always had a need to know where every bathroom was. From college to adulthood, constantly used restrooms when I could ( almost hourly) . Have had multiple years retirement, urges to get to toilet more often. *** No MD finds an issue** . I’m told “ just hold it, stretch bladder ( it’s very small, confirmed w/ sonogram and during an abdominal surgery) . So, do I say “ screw it, use a diaper?” I can hold fecal continence, always have. This is urinary.