- Adult Baby
- Diaper Lover
Ok, I'm not sure if this is the right place or not, so I apologize in advance if it is. Anyway, I'm a 55 y.o. married man, my wife tolerates my diapers not a participant however. In the very near future I will be getting a full thickness tear in my shoulder surgically repaired. I'll loose functional use of my right arm for approximately 3 weeks. I've been 24/7 for long enough that, well, I think everyone here knows what I'm implying. All those years ago diapers were the fix for OAB. I'm considering hiring a local care giver through care.com, they seem to be $20ish per hour around here and I think I could get away with three changes a day. I've no medical documentation supporting my diaper wearing so I don't think I could get insurance to pay for it. Provided I'm upfront about everything, that I'm clear about only looking for diaper changes and nothing else. Is what I'm thinking about here ethical? My wife knows that this is a sexual fetish for me. She has said she would want some kind of assurances regarding my fidelity. Don't advocate a chastity device here. We've play those games, and the base ring of every device we've tried has caused me great discomfort where the ring rides between my 'taint and the baseof my balls. So that's out. Quite frankly though I find my desire for satisfaction greatly diminished the last year of two. It's just not very important to me like it was when I was younger. I'm not sure what I could say to my wife to ease here mind about this. My wife and I have been married for a decade now, and dated in high school. So I don't see a big blow up about anything, we're both pretty comfortable with each other and our situation.