When I was in high school my family moved to a small town where they still paddled in schools. I remember the first time I got called to the front of the class for licks. I put my hands on the teacher's desk, and when I first got the first lick, I moaned. The whole class laughed.
After that I found ways to get paddled 2 or 3 times a week. Coach gave the best licks, but it might have been the thin gym shorts. The shop teacher had the best paddle.
I did my first scene at a Dark Ageplay Party last November. It was amazing.
I'll start off laughing about it. There's a space between "this isn't fun anymore" and the Top tapping you out or you safewording out where the entire world goes away. Every thought is quieted. It's a near meditative state. The aftercare afterwards is amazing.
When this crosses paths with Ageplay, it's amazing for me. To be chided and "be in trouble" because I couldn't stay try, it sends me to the stratosphere.
Ageplay for me moves around a spectrum. Sometimes it the cute and fluffy edge of BDSM. Other times it's a very nurturing thing. It's all valid.