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The only difference for me, if I was born a girl, I could wear my pretty dresses in public without people starring and mumbling under their breath - nothing else would chance in my life!
On the flipside, I dont think you'd need to worry about hiding all your pretty dresses cause its nothing unusual for a girl to own a big collection of themDaBone said:I feel like I would be even more into all this stuff. I mean I still would have had the internet, and that’s the reason for about 90 percent of why I’m like this. Only difference is that I’d probably struggle to hide all my pretty dresses.
Interesting! Although I love some sissy/feminine things and project a more sensitive, emotional caring side, I never thought about being born a girl......hmmmShyBoo81 said:For males in the ABDL scene, do you think you would have gotten into ABDL if you were a born a girl?
I think theres a 90% chance I would have never got into ABDL if I was born a girl. I dont consider myself transgender, but I do get gender dysphoria sometimes because I dont feel like my personality matches my gender at all (based on the gender norms that society says at least). Men are discouraged from showing their feelings and frowned upon if they're too emotional, for example. Littlespace just so happens to be a good coping mechanism for that. If I was born a girl though, I think 90% of my emotional needs that I get out of littlespace would be fulfilled just by not being a boy anymore.
ShyBoo81 said:For males in the ABDL scene, do you think you would have gotten into ABDL if you were a born a girl?
I think theres a 90% chance I would have never got into ABDL if I was born a girl. I dont consider myself transgender, but I do get gender dysphoria sometimes because I dont feel like my personality matches my gender at all (based on the gender norms that society says at least). Men are discouraged from showing their feelings and frowned upon if they're too emotional, for example. Littlespace just so happens to be a good coping mechanism for that. If I was born a girl though, I think 90% of my emotional needs that I get out of littlespace would be fulfilled just by not being a boy anymore.
i would drop the ab, just be a diaper lover and a woman crossdresser. i love wet diapers and wearing wet pantyhose. wearing pantyhose and a bra everyday would be a bonus for me.BabyAshtonMarie81 said:To be honest before my transition to be female. I was ABDL since I was young. I would secretly wear diapers before. But since I started my transition as female. I wear diapers 24/7 with cute outfits and purposely wear Cute AB printed diapers when i wears short dresses because i likes my cute diapers to be seen by the lucky obes who get too. If i was born female I'd probably would've been more AB my whole life. And would probably have made being a baby my whole complete life style.
Good watch. I luckily didnt have a dad who forced toxic masculinity on me (although he was still toxic in other ways) Its more on society in general that forced it onto me. I heard somewhere that girls appreciate it when a man is open about his emotions, but at the same time finds it off putting when a man is too emotional. I dont want to say all girls are like this, but this is just one example of why I hardly express my feelings in real life. And yeah I agree, women dont have it easier either since both men and women are negatively affected by toxic masculinity, just in different ways.llcollector14 said:A short while ago I discovered a documentary on You Tube called The Mask You Live In.
It talks about male toxicity in pur society and how it affects boys and girls growing up. This is when I discovered that I had been repressing my super power of being a sensitive and empathic person all my life. Being born a girl would certainly have changed a lot for me however I still would have been oppressed by male toxicity. Women truly do not have it easy. I cannot relate being a male so please bo judgement but if I had a choice being this sensitive person yes I wish I would have been born female.
My ABDL sissy baby side would still be present due to several other factors and life experience. It would just be called ABDL and the sissy part would be just normal being a girl.
I also ask myself this. Is being ABDL more acceptable in society for women than it is for men ?
I always wondered that because when I first started I would see women ABDL and bot bat an eyelash, say look at how cute it is adorable ok but seeing a man like myself I would say what kind of deviant wants to do this… I have grown a lot since then but I feel that those around us maybe not as much
I fully relate to being male, if I was born a woman I would most probably have been a lesbian. My super power is being very sensitive and extremely empathic. It may have been several different things that led me to be ABDL and a sissy ABDL at that. I weight train and take pride in my muscular shape but I have always rebelled against society norms and twisted values it impose on us.ShyBoo81 said:Good watch. I luckily didnt have a dad who forced toxic masculinity on me (although he was still toxic in other ways) Its more on society in general that forced it onto me. I heard somewhere that girls appreciate it when a man is open about his emotions, but at the same time finds it off putting when a man is too emotional. I dont want to say all girls are like this, but this is just one example of why I hardly express my feelings in real life. And yeah I agree, women dont have it easier either since both men and women are negatively affected by toxic masculinity, just in different ways.
Btw, just curious, in what ways do you not relate to being male? I think you relate because you share the same struggle of being forced to suppress your emotions just like some other men do (the non-toxic men at least)
I also wonder the same thing about whether its easier for females to be accepted as ABDL compared to males. I can see why. I mean on a surface level, women can already get away with wearing cute, child-like fashion styles to some extent. But ultimately, I dont think either gender is easily accepted for being ABDL because outsiders view our community as a bunch of weirdos.
Yes I tink me wood me wub me babyness Dat muchiesShyBoo81 said:For males in the ABDL scene, do you think you would have gotten into ABDL if you were a born a girl?
I think theres a 90% chance I would have never got into ABDL if I was born a girl. I dont consider myself transgender, but I do get gender dysphoria sometimes because I dont feel like my personality matches my gender at all (based on the gender norms that society says at least). Men are discouraged from showing their feelings and frowned upon if they're too emotional, for example. Littlespace just so happens to be a good coping mechanism for that. If I was born a girl though, I think 90% of my emotional needs that I get out of littlespace would be fulfilled just by not being a boy anymore.
I'm more DL then AB. Being transgender isn't being a woman crossdresser. It's just being a woman.Fireball44 said:i would drop the ab, just be a diaper lover and a woman crossdresser. i love wet diapers and wearing wet pantyhose. wearing pantyhose and a bra everyday would be a bonus for me.