berrt
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I am taking my wife and kids cross country to stay with my family next week for the first time since I've started having issues. I'm not sure how I'll handle my situation. They know I have been having heart and hydration problems for the last year + due to POTS, but they know nothing about the more private matters - I'd like to keep it this way, too.
Typically I can get by with little to no diapers, but there are a couple of days a week that I get pretty bad cramping and urges and resort to using them instead of interrupting my day / life going to the bathroom every 30-60 minutes or be in pain. I also usually wear one when going out for dinner, shopping, social events, etc as to not be a slave of finding the bathroom all the time.
Now, I'm not sure what I should do for this whole trip. Here are my options:
1) intentionally try to stay slightly dehydrated and avoid most of the bladder problems with frequency and volume
2) maintain hydration and just suffer the frequency / cramps / urgency without any worries of maintaining supplies and hiding disposal somehow
3) maintain hydration and just deal with maintaining supplies and disposal take the risk of them finding out. After all, there is A LOT of waste and noticable trash with adult diapers
To add: this will be a long drive, 13+ hours, with 3 kids and one of them being a newborn. I'm sure we will have plenty of stops every 3 or so hours to let them out to stretch and use the bathroom themselves. I'm sure the drive I could manage without any protection based on this alone (I also HATE changing in public restrooms)
Typically I can get by with little to no diapers, but there are a couple of days a week that I get pretty bad cramping and urges and resort to using them instead of interrupting my day / life going to the bathroom every 30-60 minutes or be in pain. I also usually wear one when going out for dinner, shopping, social events, etc as to not be a slave of finding the bathroom all the time.
Now, I'm not sure what I should do for this whole trip. Here are my options:
1) intentionally try to stay slightly dehydrated and avoid most of the bladder problems with frequency and volume
2) maintain hydration and just suffer the frequency / cramps / urgency without any worries of maintaining supplies and hiding disposal somehow
3) maintain hydration and just deal with maintaining supplies and disposal take the risk of them finding out. After all, there is A LOT of waste and noticable trash with adult diapers
To add: this will be a long drive, 13+ hours, with 3 kids and one of them being a newborn. I'm sure we will have plenty of stops every 3 or so hours to let them out to stretch and use the bathroom themselves. I'm sure the drive I could manage without any protection based on this alone (I also HATE changing in public restrooms)