cuteguybaby said:if you dont sit in it, it not worth anything you needa not only sit but stem in it for few hours like nothing happened like all babies
PaddedInPuyallup said:I've only messed my diaper once and it felt great, but the cleanup was enough to make me never do it again.
tg4selfcheckout said:I tend to go through cycles of messing multiple times in a week, and then going for a month or two without doing it at all. I'm pretty lucky to have a lot of private time and space, so if I feel like sitting in a poopy diaper for a while, I'm free to do so.
But it's important for non-IC DLs to remember that, at the root of it all, wearing and using diapers is, at least in part, a sexual activity. And it's just like any other consensual fetish, kink, or "vanilla" sexual act: it's your right to do what you want, and it's everyone else's right to not have to know about or deal with it. You wanna masturbate? Great! Do it in private, by yourself or with others present who are okay with what you're doing. You wanna poop in your diaper and waddle around with it in the seat of your pants? Great! Do it in a space where you're in control of who is exposed to it and make sure that it's consensual.
Trevor said:Your post makes sense to me except for this part. I'm happy as a sexually motivated ABDL but it's clear from people I've met and posts here that it isn't that way for everyone and it's not required to be split based on AB vs. DL. People have lots of different reasons for doing what they do. I think that while it's interesting to consider the reasons, looking at the behavior itself is more helpful.
I would hope that we would all be discreet and respectful in all aspects of life while we're out and about but I also accept that no one has a right not to be offended when they walk out their front door.
SoakedSheets said:LOL. Definitely the only way to feel fully clean is to shower. Wipes are fine for a wetting accident but you're never going to totally get rid of the smell and feel of a mess unless you fully shower and clean up.
ugh its the worst when you have an accident on the go and can't immediately return home to get cleaned up.sarahbalke said:I totally agree. There have been a few instances when I couldn't shower right away, though because I was in public.
I don't mind messing my diaper if I got time for the clean up, but I'm more into changing diapers.
tg4selfcheckout said:I tend to go through cycles of messing multiple times in a week, and then going for a month or two without doing it at all. I'm pretty lucky to have a lot of private time and space, so if I feel like sitting in a poopy diaper for a while, I'm free to do so.
But it's important for non-IC DLs to remember that, at the root of it all, wearing and using diapers is, at least in part, a sexual activity. And it's just like any other consensual fetish, kink, or "vanilla" sexual act: it's your right to do what you want, and it's everyone else's right to not have to know about or deal with it. You wanna masturbate? Great! Do it in private, by yourself or with others present who are okay with what you're doing. You wanna poop in your diaper and waddle around with it in the seat of your pants? Great! Do it in a space where you're in control of who is exposed to it and make sure that it's consensual.
rennecfox said:Yeah I'd agree but there are those that think anything deeply sub-conscienece is rooted in sexual desire (Freud was big on that belief). I can't give my own stance as to it not as it originated that way for me and I haven't personally met anyone who just decided one day they wanted to wear diapers without that at least being part of the reason.