Raven801
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I'm urinary IC and I'm in diapers and it hasn't been easy for me particularly at first but I've gotten used to it and accept it as It's better than the alternative I also have severe IBS and well that leads to times where wetting is the least of my issues but from time to time it lends to some interesting situations as I have noticed I'm much less opposed to using my diaper in a not so accident fashion... For instance I was at a meeting with a hip specialist this afternoon when out of nowhere I really needed a BM as I was sitting there talking to this lady I was tempted to run for a bathroom but as we were pretty much wrapping up I figured I could hold it. Well 5 minutes later I'm on the elevator heading to the main floor and figured I'd hit the restroom on my way out. As luck would have it the stalls where occupied. At this point I figured I'd probably make it home and if not oh well. As I made my way to the doors I realized just how uncomfortable I was ..and in a moment of thought I decided why be uncomfortable and I just let go without really thinking it through. The relief was practically instant and I didn't even feel ashamed as I finished exiting the office with a loaded diaper. I got in my car and left as I was driving away my wife called means wanted to go out to eat..I realized I forgot my backpack and had no wipes or changes but she was very insistent so I figured I'd just go to lunch with her as I was.
Lunch went of unexpectedly well and it wasn't till we hugged as I was leaving she made a little remark that reminded me of my situation. She said she appreciated me going to lunch with her as she was sorry my stomach was obviously not doing well and that I should get my butt home and take care of that.
I decided to be honest and told her that it wasn't really my IbS that had created my current situation and that it was a busy bathroom and my discomfort that ultimately led to my messy bottom. She looked at me a little oddly Snickered and said well you have to deal with wearing them I guess using them on purpose for comfort is fair enough and she said I guess that's what there for and smiled and told me she would see me later. So I guess I'm not sure what all this means but I'm ok using them on purpose for relief or comfort and It appears my wife don't care..... just processing I suppose
Lunch went of unexpectedly well and it wasn't till we hugged as I was leaving she made a little remark that reminded me of my situation. She said she appreciated me going to lunch with her as she was sorry my stomach was obviously not doing well and that I should get my butt home and take care of that.
I decided to be honest and told her that it wasn't really my IbS that had created my current situation and that it was a busy bathroom and my discomfort that ultimately led to my messy bottom. She looked at me a little oddly Snickered and said well you have to deal with wearing them I guess using them on purpose for comfort is fair enough and she said I guess that's what there for and smiled and told me she would see me later. So I guess I'm not sure what all this means but I'm ok using them on purpose for relief or comfort and It appears my wife don't care..... just processing I suppose