@Calico I am not saying you are wrong whatsoever. I am saying that a person can disabled or not disabled by autism. Furthermore, just as autism is on a spectrum, so is disablility, ranging from hidden to profound.
My former employer was diagnosed with Asberger's (as stated by his psychologist) at the age of 62. He had no idea he was on the spectrum, but it was evident in his social behavior. I was the one who pushed him to get checked. He was resentful that I would even think he might be on the spectrum, but thankful afterwards. He is a genius and highly successful. So in his case, autism is strictly a disorder without disability (other than not knowing when he was being rude).
Your statements about yourself indicate a very real disability, because of autism.
I have knew a couple with a grown son with autism, who had the mental capability of a toddler and severely physically disabled, needing total care.
Three different people with autism, wildly differentiated on the spectrum, and going from no disability to profound disability.