Hi there!
My husband is a Abdl. I personally am not into it, but I understand that it is a good thing for him.. he has his own room where he can partake and do little things. Unfortunately I’m just not comfortable for that to be going on around me. But he can have his time to do that.. he also made a abdl Instagram so he could look at things related to that, he told me it gave him more confidence and seeing other abdls was a good thing.. I had access to it so I could see what he was into, I want to normalize for me and ask questions about it (what about those pics he likes? Does he want those etc)
I’m really just trying to be a good wife to him. He told me about this.. or I woke up to him in a diaper about 6 months ago.. it has been a very hard journey for both of us but I’m really trying to be open minded..
so for my actual question.. the other day he deleted his Instagram account.. and said he didn’t want to look at it anymore.. and I asked if this was part of the binge/ purge cycle? He said he didn’t know.. but it seems like it is.. I don’t think that’s necessarily healthy for him. We both know he isn’t just gonna stop being abdl. That’s who he is. Me being the paranoid being I am .. I just want him to hide anything from me. We should be open about this.. even if I’m not into it.
Do you think I’m the underlying reason he is trying to purge?
do you think that is what he is doing (binge-purge)?
Any ideas to help?
I want to sit down and talk with him about this but is it even my business? Idk I just need help please
My husband is a Abdl. I personally am not into it, but I understand that it is a good thing for him.. he has his own room where he can partake and do little things. Unfortunately I’m just not comfortable for that to be going on around me. But he can have his time to do that.. he also made a abdl Instagram so he could look at things related to that, he told me it gave him more confidence and seeing other abdls was a good thing.. I had access to it so I could see what he was into, I want to normalize for me and ask questions about it (what about those pics he likes? Does he want those etc)
I’m really just trying to be a good wife to him. He told me about this.. or I woke up to him in a diaper about 6 months ago.. it has been a very hard journey for both of us but I’m really trying to be open minded..
so for my actual question.. the other day he deleted his Instagram account.. and said he didn’t want to look at it anymore.. and I asked if this was part of the binge/ purge cycle? He said he didn’t know.. but it seems like it is.. I don’t think that’s necessarily healthy for him. We both know he isn’t just gonna stop being abdl. That’s who he is. Me being the paranoid being I am .. I just want him to hide anything from me. We should be open about this.. even if I’m not into it.
Do you think I’m the underlying reason he is trying to purge?
do you think that is what he is doing (binge-purge)?
Any ideas to help?
I want to sit down and talk with him about this but is it even my business? Idk I just need help please