Hey Spaz,
It sounds like we are both in the same boat. I've been having to wear 24/7/365 now for just right at 6 years, however, mine is due to spinal problems and the surgeries I've had to try to correct them. I'd like to get to know you and talk to you about how you deal with this personally. I try to talk to everyone that's really stuck in diapers legitimately. They're usually more honest about things concerning wearing and changing, and the other problems associated with round the clock use. If you get the chance and would like to talk, let me know via a pm or something.
Good luck to you, Rick.