BabyHailey1977
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Something recently happened at work and I really want to get some feedback from others here. I really feel like my privacy was violated, but not sure what to do.
I work in a large warehouse that everyone here probably orders from. In the building, there is only one single use restroom, which is in the Wellness Center. This is like a nurses office. I have an accommodation to use that restroom to change during my shift.
Anyway, my boss is aware of my accommodation, and the reason for it. One day, he stopped me going in and started asking questions like, what’s up, is everything ok, was there an injury? Stuff like that. I said no, I just need to use the restroom. He said ok, and followed me in to the Wellness Center. I gave him a weird look, and then I went into the restroom and shut the door, thinking he left. I changed my diaper, washed my hands and opened the door. This is the creepy part….my boss was standing directly outside the bathroom door, actually about three inches from the door. He had been standing there the entire time. He undoubtedly heard me change my diaper.
When I opened the door, I was like “can I help you?” He again started asking me if I was ok, if everything is ok. It’s embarrassing that he knows, and then to have him standing that close to the door, waiting for me to get out made me feel so embarrassed. I went from embarrassed to pissed really quick.
After hounding me about being ok, he asked me to hang some signs. He could have done that on the floor, and given me my privacy.
Am I justified in feeling embarrassed to the point where I want to file a report with HR? I had to tell him about my accommodation and diapers because he questioned me going all the way to the front to use the bathroom. Now I feel like he’s almost spying on me to see what I’m doing.
Thanks for all the support!
I work in a large warehouse that everyone here probably orders from. In the building, there is only one single use restroom, which is in the Wellness Center. This is like a nurses office. I have an accommodation to use that restroom to change during my shift.
Anyway, my boss is aware of my accommodation, and the reason for it. One day, he stopped me going in and started asking questions like, what’s up, is everything ok, was there an injury? Stuff like that. I said no, I just need to use the restroom. He said ok, and followed me in to the Wellness Center. I gave him a weird look, and then I went into the restroom and shut the door, thinking he left. I changed my diaper, washed my hands and opened the door. This is the creepy part….my boss was standing directly outside the bathroom door, actually about three inches from the door. He had been standing there the entire time. He undoubtedly heard me change my diaper.
When I opened the door, I was like “can I help you?” He again started asking me if I was ok, if everything is ok. It’s embarrassing that he knows, and then to have him standing that close to the door, waiting for me to get out made me feel so embarrassed. I went from embarrassed to pissed really quick.
After hounding me about being ok, he asked me to hang some signs. He could have done that on the floor, and given me my privacy.
Am I justified in feeling embarrassed to the point where I want to file a report with HR? I had to tell him about my accommodation and diapers because he questioned me going all the way to the front to use the bathroom. Now I feel like he’s almost spying on me to see what I’m doing.
Thanks for all the support!