Any other good ABDL social media sites

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Is there any other good sites for ABDL’s to chat with? Adisc is good but it’s missing something not sure what though just feels like this site can use a little more. Any other recommendation for a ABDL site. Preferably not a really porny site.
 
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In two words: "not really".
 
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Nope ... Fetlife is the most active place you'll find ABDL s .

As far as the rest of the internet, good luck finding good active communities.
 
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and fetlife isn't that active I've seen groups that haven't had a response for 6 months and some haven't had a response for 4 years!
 
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There's Daily Diapers, but they are centered around being a diaper fetish site, with more roleplay and stories than useless forum talk.
 
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Fetlife is the best bet imo, especially if you are looking to get your kink on. AB/DL is definitely alive and well over there, but it can take time to fall into the right groups.
 
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On fetlife within the first 2 months I found a mommy, a big sis and some really great abdl friends I talk to all the time! It’s a great site once you get used to it :3

stay away from abdlmatch.con
 
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BabyPawz said:
On fetlife within the first 2 months I found a mommy, a big sis and some really great abdl friends I talk to all the time! It’s a great site once you get used to it :3
Be aware that the odds of finding someone anywhere near you in Fetlife all depends on where you live. UK folks and those that live in major cities have the best chances.

Using me as an example:
I've gone through all the PA events, all the active ABDL and age play groups, and I've looked for any active ABDL members within a 2 hour car drive of my location ... out of 7,200+ accounts who are 'interested in ABDL', I only found 20, within a 2 hour drive of me with any activity in the last 6 months. One person has responded to a PM I sent.
 
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You have to keep in mind that a lot of people are careful with their personal details on a site like fetlife and especially with the more out their fetishes, tend to have their guard up. If you try to treat it as some kind of directory service and just go hunting for people to contact, then yeah, I can imagine that has a low probability of success.
I'd say the best bet for fetlife is to join a few groups, even if they don't appear to have anyone anywhere near you. Get to know some people, let people get to know you. Worst case you make some good online friends and have some fun. Better case you may be surprised to find out that there are actually a tonne of people around you, they just don't go around with a sign saying "hit me up and we'll do diaper stuff yo".
 
BoundCoder said:
If you try to treat it as some kind of directory service and just go hunting for people to contact, then yeah, I can imagine that has a low probability of success.
I'd say the best bet for fetlife is to join a few groups, even if they don't appear to have anyone anywhere near you.
I don't join groups that are dead ... look for yourself in the ABDL section ... how many groups have legitimate activity with in the last 3 months ? Very few. 😔
 
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There's r/ABDL if you're on Reddit
 
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I don't join groups that are dead ... look for yourself in the ABDL section ... how many groups have legitimate activity with in the last 3 months ? Very few. 😔

Different experiences I guess. I mostly joined fetlife for BDSM and kinda stumbled into ABDL and other kinks. I started out in the general ones, and gradually fell into the more niche ones as I met people and figured out what I was even into. That said, there seems to be no shortage of active open groups centered around ABDL.

FloofyWolf said:
There's r/ABDL if you're on Reddit

The post here is actually very apt to this discussion too and from quick glance still entirely relevant. It lists two that appear to still be pretty active and probably a good starting point ( https://fetlife.com/groups/336 and https://fetlife.com/groups/18060 ).

EDIT: no idea what this forum is doing with reddit links, but yuck..
 
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Diaper-bois is a gay social site, tough it's geared more toward adult topics.

@BoundCoder - already a member of first group, not allowed in second group.
 
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Okay cool I’m not really talking about dating sites more like sites to just chat, post, similar to Twitter or Facebook. Though I have tried to find some good dating sites for ABDL
 
A lot of people moved to abdl.link once Tumblr started their new rules. I recommend it. It's through Mastadon which people may or may not like, but to each their own.
 
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There is discord that related to this site. You will get more live chat.

And private messages.

I think this site us the best out there though.

There are others but you will get people looking for subs.

I have some one that just won't to spank me. And thought that just because I was a Little, that it would be what I would want.

You don't get that nonsense on this site. And if we do that person is soon put in there. Places.

Hee, hee ok who's the first fir me paddle.

Sorry couldn't resist being a bit naughty. Lol

Hugs

Siysiy
 
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I dont think there's much out there unfortunately. You can find littles on Tumblr but i know most people dont find that ideal. Fetlife in my opinion as a rural person is useless (its only worth anything if you live in a big city)
 
Twitter has had a pretty active community after what went down on Tumblr last year
 
ChristianDiaperLover said:
Is there any other good sites for ABDL’s to chat with? Adisc is good but it’s missing something not sure what though just feels like this site can use a little more. Any other recommendation for a ABDL site. Preferably not a really porny site.
Yes!! There's one called "Wetting and Diaper Wonderland" It's way better!! This site already took down my profile pick claiming that it was somehow unappropriate.
 
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