Fireblader1974
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Last night i decided i couldnt keep my secret anymore and started talking to my wife about my recent Aspergers diagnosis and associated behaviours and paraphilias that go with. I said that for years i never really talked about my fetishes so much in case she thought i was weird.
I then explained that i have the AS traits of attraction to objects (clothes mostly) that fire up a hightened sex drive that i cant control. She knew i had a satin fetish but that was about it. So i said is there anything i could do to spice up sex life for her to which she replied no im turned on if i know im turning you on. So i grabbed the opportunity by saying i wouldnt mind experimenting with a few fetishes but nothing too weird and went through some. She didnt have a preference really when we discussed some then i said dressing up is really my main one and having her wear nice lingerie etc. When i got to ABDL I then said that due to stress and what it does for my ibs i was curiously drawn to Nappies as a stress buster as my AS seems to highten my need to switch off and escape the world. I explained how couples use this to relax and have fun too. She then says its strange but who cares and ive got no problem wearing anything thats fine with me. So we decided that tonight we would each write a list of lifestyle changes or experiments the other could do to make our lives better socially and sexually.
Couldnt believe her response..... so im gonna put this firmly on the list as an experiment and its all innocent no big deal. My plan is to be padded in bed tonight and by end of next week have her in nice crinkly pink ones. Had she been shocked when i was going through the list of kinks and my opinions on them and said about DL then id have said hey who knows no big deal what about the next one ?
I needed this security blanket of backing away but she sees no harm in anything i say.... wow so glad i went for it ..... not saying this could work for others but im so glad i did
Ill update if she gives me the green light to wear in her company and whether she agrees to the DCs im gonna get her
I then explained that i have the AS traits of attraction to objects (clothes mostly) that fire up a hightened sex drive that i cant control. She knew i had a satin fetish but that was about it. So i said is there anything i could do to spice up sex life for her to which she replied no im turned on if i know im turning you on. So i grabbed the opportunity by saying i wouldnt mind experimenting with a few fetishes but nothing too weird and went through some. She didnt have a preference really when we discussed some then i said dressing up is really my main one and having her wear nice lingerie etc. When i got to ABDL I then said that due to stress and what it does for my ibs i was curiously drawn to Nappies as a stress buster as my AS seems to highten my need to switch off and escape the world. I explained how couples use this to relax and have fun too. She then says its strange but who cares and ive got no problem wearing anything thats fine with me. So we decided that tonight we would each write a list of lifestyle changes or experiments the other could do to make our lives better socially and sexually.
Couldnt believe her response..... so im gonna put this firmly on the list as an experiment and its all innocent no big deal. My plan is to be padded in bed tonight and by end of next week have her in nice crinkly pink ones. Had she been shocked when i was going through the list of kinks and my opinions on them and said about DL then id have said hey who knows no big deal what about the next one ?
I needed this security blanket of backing away but she sees no harm in anything i say.... wow so glad i went for it ..... not saying this could work for others but im so glad i did
Ill update if she gives me the green light to wear in her company and whether she agrees to the DCs im gonna get her