ABDL first, THEN involuntarily became IC

[kayakbaby]

I am curious to know about the journies of those who were ABDL and THEN became IC involuntarily (accident, disease, childbirth etc) . This happened for me.
I've been ABDL since I was 8 years old. After having 4 children, I became incontinent in my 40's. At first it was just sneezes, laughing or losing my footing on a hike.

Then I started peeing myself with no warning, except I could feel it running down my legs. I can literally not feel myself peeing. It's pretty amazing, actually.

While I've always loved peeing myself and I'm thrilled to be IC, I did go through a number of years where I was concerned about losing AUTONOMY over my bladder. I mean, I liked wetting myself, but on my terms.

Over this last year I've surrendered to having no control and accepted my IC. I guess it's just like being a baby in some senses. I wear diapers 24/7 and really enjoy them. I've learned my work arounds for difficult situations. Sometimes I still worry about not being able to have control ever again over my bladder, but for the most part I'm living the life of an ABDL and loving it. How about you?

 

[MullbG]

Out of curiousity, did you find out the actual cause of your IC?

 

[kayakbaby]

Out of curiousity, did you find out the actual cause of your IC?

Nope. 75% of all women develop incontinence at some point in their lives. That statistic says its normal and to be expected. In other words, not a medical issue. Things get stretched and weak in the pelvic floor after having 4 kids, so it's just natural to get incontinence from this. I have no medical issues or concerns, so no reason to see the doc and get an official diagnosis (which would probably take years, require lots of expensive, unnecessary, invasive tests and probably result in less than satisfactory information anyway).

 

[MullbG]

I see, thanks for sharing!

 

[OnePiece]

I am curious to know about the journies of those who were ABDL and THEN became IC involuntarily (accident, disease, childbirth etc) . This happened for me.
I've been ABDL since I was 8 years old. After having 4 children, I became incontinent in my 40's. At first it was just sneezes, laughing or losing my footing on a hike.

Then I started peeing myself with no warning, except I could feel it running down my legs. I can literally not feel myself peeing. It's pretty amazing, actually.

While I've always loved peeing myself and I'm thrilled to be IC, I did go through a number of years where I was concerned about losing AUTONOMY over my bladder. I mean, I liked wetting myself, but on my terms.

Over this last year I've surrendered to having no control and accepted my IC. I guess it's just like being a baby in some senses. I wear diapers 24/7 and really enjoy them. I've learned my work arounds for difficult situations. Sometimes I still worry about not being able to have control ever again over my bladder, but for the most part I'm living the life of an ABDL and loving it. How about you?

I have loved pee-games since puberty and been sort of DL even longer. Real diapers came after I was an adult.

When I was in my late 40's, I started to have minor accidents and decided it was time to see the doctor, but my troubles started much earlier.
For several years I had problems with not having a WC close enough. Not a "problem" when being home or roaming in the forrest,
but driving 40 mins to the city got worse and worse. Also at work I had to use the WC frequently.
Gradually it got worse and when I felt the urge I knew I had a very limited time. Finally, I had accidents at work and had to do something about it.

The doctor ran me through several tests to try to find the cause of my problem, but non was found.
I must say I haven't had a too good experience with my urologist, too much prescription of different meds that did not help,
but had bad side effects. The other specialists have been nice.

Now I'm in diapers and I'm very OK with that. IC is of course something I'd rather not have, but I have now lived through other troubles that is more severe, so the IC is just a pee-drop in the ocean.

 

[KitsuneFox]

I've been a DL since a very early age ... in my early 20's started showing signs of incontinence.
I actually dislike not having much control over my bladder - it's even more frustrating when I have a fecal accident, especially in public!

I really wish I had a choice to wear diapers or not. IC issues have forced me to quit my career a few years ago, and change the way I live my life.
To be honest, being diaper dependent ( not by choice ) has completely removed that "something special" feeling diapers use to have for me.

 

[LordDuque]

I’ve been DL since as far as I can remember, though actually I consider that when you’re a child (I mean no sex awakening yet) it’s not real DL but I remember with just 3 y/o feeling strangely confortable wearing diapers during day and not needing them (but I did to sleep until 14). And then, being 24 I had the spinal injury (due to an accident) and became IC 24/7. Both pee and bowel. I must say also that being IC for me has made worse everything related to the DL thing, that’s why I see so nonsense those guys wanting to “become“ IC. I think probably it‘s got something to do with wetting the bed, a lot of us DLs have been bed wetters when starting to have orgasms, and so on. But as I said with just 3 I liked wearing them even if I was ashamed if discovered, so….who knows where it came from.? But I repeat being IC made no favor to my diaper lover experiences. Hope I’ve been clear. Regards to everyone

 

[kayakbaby]

I’ve been DL since as far as I can remember, though actually I consider that when you’re a child (I mean no sex awakening yet) it’s not real DL but I remember with just 3 y/o feeling strangely confortable wearing diapers during day and not needing them (but I did to sleep until 14). And then, being 24 I had the spinal injury (due to an accident) and became IC 24/7. Both pee and bowel. I must say also that being IC for me has made worse everything related to the DL thing, that’s why I see so nonsense those guys wanting to “become“ IC. I think probably it‘s got something to do with wetting the bed, a lot of us DLs have been bed wetters when starting to have orgasms, and so on. But as I said with just 3 I liked wearing them even if I was ashamed if discovered, so….who knows where it came from.? But I repeat being IC made no favor to my diaper lover experiences. Hope I’ve been clear. Regards to everyone

So, would you say that being IC took the magic out of being DL? Are there ever times you're able to rekindle the DL magic temporarily?

 

[LordDuque]

Not exactly that, the magic remains in that sense. What happened to me next to having the accident is that before, I had a sexual relationship with whatever girl, and depending on how open minded she was among other factors, and after some questions if I saw it possible (tainting about fetishes and watching her reactions) I had no real problem in telling her “look I’m a bit naughty and I like this”, and in fact I succeeded with a not bad number of them. But now, even when diapers are included some way in any sex relation with no choose, but I fear the reaction or possible judgement they can make of this guy that needs diapers after and accident and also gets excited with it? What kind of weird freak does something like that? Of course that I can explain, I was bed wetter till 14, bla bla bla, but u know the first impression does a lot and now I’m very much scary about exposing it than before, and so definitely that’s the worst trouble to face! because with no interaction or reciprocity from both two there’s no magic as u call it . Do you get my point? Hope u do, I’ve done my very best to explain.

Besides I think other things about those people desiring (stupidly) to be IC but that’s another point. my best regards kayakbaby and everyone!

 

[kayakbaby]

Not exactly that, the magic remains in that sense. What happened to me next to having the accident is that before, I had a sexual relationship with whatever girl, and depending on how open minded she was among other factors, and after some questions if I saw it possible (tainting about fetishes and watching her reactions) I had no real problem in telling her “look I’m a bit naughty and I like this”, and in fact I succeeded with a not bad number of them. But now, even when diapers are included some way in any sex relation with no choose, but I fear the reaction or possible judgement they can make of this guy that needs diapers after and accident and also gets excited with it? What kind of weird freak does something like that? Of course that I can explain, I was bed wetter till 14, bla bla bla, but u know the first impression does a lot and now I’m very much scary about exposing it than before, and so definitely that’s the worst trouble to face! because with no interaction or reciprocity from both two there’s no magic as u call it . Do you get my point? Hope u do, I’ve done my very best to explain.

Besides I think other things about those people desiring (stupidly) to be IC but that’s another point. my best regards kayakbaby and everyone!

Thank you for sharing that. I can definitely see how transitioning from diapers for enjoyment to diapers with no choice and no option would change your confidence level and how you think of yourself. I hope that you find a way to feel good about yourself again and confident with women. It's a challenging journey.

 

[LordDuque]

Thank you for sharing that. I can definitely see how transitioning from diapers for enjoyment to diapers with no choice and no option would change your confidence level and how you think of yourself. I hope that you find a way to feel good about yourself again and confident with women. It's a challenging journey

Much obliged kayak. It’s pleasing to me to have someone whom I can speak about these things and knowing they’ll understand because of our similar conditions (illnesses as well as our peculiar tastes he he he ) . Cheers!

 

[Happy2BeInNappies2]

For all of my living memory I have always had a love of wearing dresses and using nappies, along with a very strong desire to have been born a girl. So I was a DL from the very beginning, long before any incontinent concerns.

My wife accepted all of me in love (faults and all) and there were no secrets for us to hide from each other, in our marriage.

However, from my early 40s over many years, I slowly developed a slightly increasing bowel incontinence problem. Then came the day about four years ago, (as I was found daily scrubbing my underwear clean as hand washing), when my wife said to me:
“I think you should give it up and wear nappies all the time now.”

My wife was right of course (they always are) and I have not worn anything else since. At the very moment I complied to her suggestion, she then followed up her advice with these words:
“Welcome to my world.”
(My beautiful girl developed severe incontinence ages before we were married. Sad to say, she has since passed away, just over a year ago).

I am very fortunate in that I have only a mild IC case, with a few IBS related issues from time to time. It is rare to find an unstained nappy when changing at the end of the day.

I have nothing to complain about.

 

[LittleRascal]

I am curious to know about the journies of those who were ABDL and THEN became IC involuntarily (accident, disease, childbirth etc) . This happened for me.
I've been ABDL since I was 8 years old. After having 4 children, I became incontinent in my 40's. At first it was just sneezes, laughing or losing my footing on a hike.

Then I started peeing myself with no warning, except I could feel it running down my legs. I can literally not feel myself peeing. It's pretty amazing, actually.

While I've always loved peeing myself and I'm thrilled to be IC, I did go through a number of years where I was concerned about losing AUTONOMY over my bladder. I mean, I liked wetting myself, but on my terms.

Over this last year I've surrendered to having no control and accepted my IC. I guess it's just like being a baby in some senses. I wear diapers 24/7 and really enjoy them. I've learned my work arounds for difficult situations. Sometimes I still worry about not being able to have control ever again over my bladder, but for the most part I'm living the life of an ABDL and loving it. How about you?

Did you wear 24/7 if so it’s possible you weakened your sphincter muscles amongst other muscles which were then worsened by child birth, I’m completely assuming and if that’s not the case my apologies just a thought nevertheless not a rude thought just a possible scenario.

 

[Calico]

I'm a dribbler and have left a trail of pee when walking to my room. I do leak urine and I have delivered two babies. Also I have read that IC and bladder leakage is not a normal part of aging. Just because it's common doesn't mean it's normal. There are treatments for it.