Glad to hear you are making new friends and getting acquainted with the community there
I think it's always amazing to hear about how far spread and wide reaching us ABs are. I know of many ABs and DLs from all across the globe and I would have never thought that Mexico City of all places would have such a large and thriving ABDL community, but it makes sense, especially in such a populated country.
Even my neck of the woods, Atlantic Canada and Nova Scotia in particular has a bit of an ABDL community. It's not super big and I'd say it veers slightly more towards the kinky side of things, there's a fair bit of overlap with the BDSM community here, but I've met a few ABs and DLs who are just really chill genuine people, some who view this as I do, a lifestyle choice and I've even met a few Mommies as well, some who are part of the community and some who exist outside of it, like my former Mommy friend for instance.
How is the community over there? Is it really big? Is everyone friendly?
One thing I notice is that based on where the community is located, it can carry itself a little differently. Having visited some AB related events in a big city like Toronto, I found the community was much more welcoming towards newcomers and far more casual, whereas the community over here took some getting use to, as it was a fair deal smaller and much more cliquey as a result.
In any event, hope you can meet some nice ABs, DLs and Caregivers to become friends with