kik91
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So, I've been thinking about being an Adult Baby and the male identity. It is no secret that most Adult Babies are male. I've been thinking about that. Why is that? Is it because of society and the male identity that has been dominant over centuries? I don't know, but it got me curious.
I've been thinking, maybe the reason why there are fewer females in the AB Community is because girls are usually seen as cute. Like, society, even in current times, see women as more emotional and allowed for that. Society is okay with women expressing their feelings and showing them openly, so the female image is tied with a sense of openness.
But males are expected to be tough. They are expected to look harsh and not cry. "Boys don't cry". That's how society sees males and expects of them. Not emotional.
So, I guess for many males, the idea of wearing diapers, sucking pacifiers and acting like babies is a way not only to release those feelings, but maybe even as a form of rebellion to the male image? Many guys are tired of feeling like they have to hold it together all the time. Maybe they want to be cared for and babied inside, and that brings them closer to the AB lifestyle.
There are a lot of Little Girls and Daddies, but it is even more common the idea of Baby Boys and Mommies. It is more prevalent in AB fiction and the whole community. Maybe those baby boys want to relieve the weight that has been placed over their shoulders, and let a girl be the strong one.
In traditional patriarchy, men are the ones who hold the house together, they have a lot of responsibility. Now they want to be the ones taken care of, let the girl change their diapers and baby them, and relinquish all the cares.
I don't know, I've been thinking about it. Maybe that's why there are more Adult Baby Boys than Adult Baby Girls. Because society expects different from both genders, so they behave differently and eventually, react differently.
Have you thought about it? Thoughts?
NOTE: This post is in no way meant to be sexist and belittle any gender. I am just writing what I think, and I hope I worded it right.
Anyway, for those tough guys out there... let yourself be pampered!! It's okay to let someone diaper you and treat you like a baby!! You don't have to be macho tough all the time!!
I've been thinking, maybe the reason why there are fewer females in the AB Community is because girls are usually seen as cute. Like, society, even in current times, see women as more emotional and allowed for that. Society is okay with women expressing their feelings and showing them openly, so the female image is tied with a sense of openness.
But males are expected to be tough. They are expected to look harsh and not cry. "Boys don't cry". That's how society sees males and expects of them. Not emotional.
So, I guess for many males, the idea of wearing diapers, sucking pacifiers and acting like babies is a way not only to release those feelings, but maybe even as a form of rebellion to the male image? Many guys are tired of feeling like they have to hold it together all the time. Maybe they want to be cared for and babied inside, and that brings them closer to the AB lifestyle.
There are a lot of Little Girls and Daddies, but it is even more common the idea of Baby Boys and Mommies. It is more prevalent in AB fiction and the whole community. Maybe those baby boys want to relieve the weight that has been placed over their shoulders, and let a girl be the strong one.
In traditional patriarchy, men are the ones who hold the house together, they have a lot of responsibility. Now they want to be the ones taken care of, let the girl change their diapers and baby them, and relinquish all the cares.
I don't know, I've been thinking about it. Maybe that's why there are more Adult Baby Boys than Adult Baby Girls. Because society expects different from both genders, so they behave differently and eventually, react differently.
Have you thought about it? Thoughts?
NOTE: This post is in no way meant to be sexist and belittle any gender. I am just writing what I think, and I hope I worded it right.
Anyway, for those tough guys out there... let yourself be pampered!! It's okay to let someone diaper you and treat you like a baby!! You don't have to be macho tough all the time!!