kik91
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Hey guys.
I have a few concerns that have also kept me a bit uneasy. And this goes for the whole ABDL community. There is one thing that keeps me a bit guilty and even sometimes down.
Am I wrong to be open about my ABDL side?
Look, as many of you know, I am pretty open about my baby side. My parents and sister know, and they are okay with me being a baby and diapered in the house. Some cousins I really trust also know, and even an aunt, and two uncles. My best friend has babied me, and many close friends know about this too. As time went by, it became easier to tell people about this. Slowly, I'm becoming less of a "closet-ABDL".
That being said, every time I share this with the ABDL community, many times I am criticized about it. They say to me "it is so wrong for you to do that!" or "why would you even tell everyone about this?!"
I know the world is cruel, and I know it could be risky to be like this. But I just feel happy when I get to be myself with people who care for me. No, I don't tell EVERYONE I know, just people I trust. And no, I'm not public because it could be harmful for professional life. But otherwise, being open has made me more confident. I even go to the streets with a pacifier around my neck, and going diapered in public is peace of cake.
But people sometimes make me feel bad because they say "this should be private!"
If many people think this should be kept private and are comfortable about it being their thing, I totally and completely respect that and understand. But them shaming me for being open, well, it does makes me feel bad sometimes.
I mean, I understand when they say "you wouldn't want to know about your parents fetishes, would you?!". I certainly wouldn't, but to them, this is not sexual. It is my way of being. How I am.
So, I feel guilty sometimes because many ABDLs shame me for being like this.
What do you guys think? Am I wrong?
I have a few concerns that have also kept me a bit uneasy. And this goes for the whole ABDL community. There is one thing that keeps me a bit guilty and even sometimes down.
Am I wrong to be open about my ABDL side?
Look, as many of you know, I am pretty open about my baby side. My parents and sister know, and they are okay with me being a baby and diapered in the house. Some cousins I really trust also know, and even an aunt, and two uncles. My best friend has babied me, and many close friends know about this too. As time went by, it became easier to tell people about this. Slowly, I'm becoming less of a "closet-ABDL".
That being said, every time I share this with the ABDL community, many times I am criticized about it. They say to me "it is so wrong for you to do that!" or "why would you even tell everyone about this?!"
I know the world is cruel, and I know it could be risky to be like this. But I just feel happy when I get to be myself with people who care for me. No, I don't tell EVERYONE I know, just people I trust. And no, I'm not public because it could be harmful for professional life. But otherwise, being open has made me more confident. I even go to the streets with a pacifier around my neck, and going diapered in public is peace of cake.
But people sometimes make me feel bad because they say "this should be private!"
If many people think this should be kept private and are comfortable about it being their thing, I totally and completely respect that and understand. But them shaming me for being open, well, it does makes me feel bad sometimes.
I mean, I understand when they say "you wouldn't want to know about your parents fetishes, would you?!". I certainly wouldn't, but to them, this is not sexual. It is my way of being. How I am.
So, I feel guilty sometimes because many ABDLs shame me for being like this.
What do you guys think? Am I wrong?
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