kik91
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Okay, so I talked to my family about my Baby side again. The way our relationship has developed the past few years is amazing, but there are still some things I wanted to say and to lay on the table so I could go on with peace of mind.
The first thing I did as we sit down and talk was thank them. I thanked my mother, father and sister for the way they have dealt with my baby side. I told them that I know it is not easy for them to see their 27 year old son/older brother in diapers, or baby clothes, or acting like baby sucking his thumb or paci. It takes huge amount of love, and I told them that.
My dad said that it was okay, because he know who I am in my bones and he loves every bit of me. My mother said that my baby side is the least thing about me that worries her. That she understand it's part of my being and she loves me, with or without it. My sister was non-verbal, but she gave me a thumbs up.
They made it clear that they are happy if I am happy, and if being a diaper baby makes me happy, I have their support.
I also talked about how they view me.
I told them that, despite my baby side, I am still a grown adult who can make decisions and be a competent human being. My father has always shown me that respect, even after he knew about my baby side. But my mother and sister were unintentionally patronizing.
My mom and sister apologized for making me feel that way. My dad reaffirmed his attitude that he knows I'm super intelligent and sensitive, and that he knows greatness awaits for me. My mom said she does trusts me, and that she's just motherly worried as any mother would be. It's just who she is. But that she is proud of me and that she will try to be less overprotective.
My sister does acknowledged that she is patronizing, but that's because her personality is the opposite of mine. She is a 25 year old with the soul of a 60 year old, so she kinds of minimizes my opinions sometimes. She did apologized and promise to try to give me more credit.
All in all, they said they support me in what I do. Diapers, pacifiers and all.
Quite a good talk!
The first thing I did as we sit down and talk was thank them. I thanked my mother, father and sister for the way they have dealt with my baby side. I told them that I know it is not easy for them to see their 27 year old son/older brother in diapers, or baby clothes, or acting like baby sucking his thumb or paci. It takes huge amount of love, and I told them that.
My dad said that it was okay, because he know who I am in my bones and he loves every bit of me. My mother said that my baby side is the least thing about me that worries her. That she understand it's part of my being and she loves me, with or without it. My sister was non-verbal, but she gave me a thumbs up.
They made it clear that they are happy if I am happy, and if being a diaper baby makes me happy, I have their support.
I also talked about how they view me.
I told them that, despite my baby side, I am still a grown adult who can make decisions and be a competent human being. My father has always shown me that respect, even after he knew about my baby side. But my mother and sister were unintentionally patronizing.
My mom and sister apologized for making me feel that way. My dad reaffirmed his attitude that he knows I'm super intelligent and sensitive, and that he knows greatness awaits for me. My mom said she does trusts me, and that she's just motherly worried as any mother would be. It's just who she is. But that she is proud of me and that she will try to be less overprotective.
My sister does acknowledged that she is patronizing, but that's because her personality is the opposite of mine. She is a 25 year old with the soul of a 60 year old, so she kinds of minimizes my opinions sometimes. She did apologized and promise to try to give me more credit.
All in all, they said they support me in what I do. Diapers, pacifiers and all.
Quite a good talk!
